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  1. For a group of grown men, there sure are a lot of drama queens in here. I was skeptical of the validity of the claims as well until the statement was released, and I am a woman that has been put in more gross situations than any of you guys would think. It's not such a far fetched notion to acknowledge that anyone can say anything on the internet to gain attention/cause trouble. It's the easiest thing in the world to sit behind your keyboard in the comfort of your home and spread lies. It's also not such a far fetched notion to acknowledge that people we may admire such as Lacey and C.K. might be gross. I think anyone in here that was skeptical were keeping the door open to both possibilities until more information was provided. Move on. Thank you.
    7 points
  2. If you're trying to hold back the mob, why not just say that there's no reason to rush to judgement? You say you're playing devil's advocate, but really you're just trotting out the generic playbook for rape denial: he's a good family man and she's mentally ill, repeat until the victim slinks off into a corner and is never heard from again.
    4 points
  3. RT has an exclusive 3xLP https://roughtrade.com/gb/music/all-melody
    3 points
  4. It's quite sensible not to rush to judgment when someone is accused of something without proof. Spreading information about the girl struggling with mental health in an effort to play devil's advocate cast doubt on her story is not. It just perpetuates the rape denial climate that we know is very real. Also his snark and condescension (ie "you don’t need me to copy and paste a WebMD definition for that, do you?", "Delayed thanks to extended production time, to fortify the sleeve so you can’t break it over your head for Likes.") aren't helping his case.
    3 points
  5. When your first response to accusations that a person who has written and sang about predatory behavior is to scour the accuser's social media for evidence of flaws, then suggest that she's not reliable because she has struggled with mental health, you're the part of the problem. "But if her reputation is truly on the line"... it's not. His is. You just WANT her to be lying.
    3 points
  6. No, but it is very clearly what you implied. What else were you bringing up her mental condition for? The clear and insidious accusation is that because she suffers from a mental illness, she is untrustworthy.
    3 points
  7. I guess I’ll just agree to disagree, then. Not once did I say “okay well that girl is openly bipolar so she probably just made this whole thing up”. If that’s how you’d like to interpret my post, okay, you’re welcome to go for it. But it’s not what I said. Before developments were made and hollow apologies were posted, I was in a camp of people willing to hear about more evidence or facts surface before jumping to one conclusion or another. I feel like I’m being put on full blast because I didn’t immediately side with the first allegation, and because I took a moment to assess the credibility of a piece of the larger picture before we got any other pieces of the puzzle. I’m not a Lacey apologist and I can’t rationalize his actions. But I also don’t think anyone is a piece of shit for being initially skeptical about any scenario where something could be proven by the victim, if the victim felt like proving it, but may or may not at their own discretion.
    3 points
  8. Well, nice thread. Got three or four new VC posters I know are awful people. Easily the grossest thing I've read on here.
    3 points
  9. I guess they will look nice sitting next to your lostprophets collection.
    3 points
  10. Im glad all these social science degrees are finally getting some use.
    2 points
  11. I’d just like to know when my white copy is going to ship.
    2 points
  12. It's been a rough day around here at the VC... let it slide, my friend... let it ride easy down the road. Edit: You're also in a JTB thread, so I wouldn't have been as surprised if I thought people were being a little too overly emotional or sensitive.
    2 points
  13. Yeah can we lock this or make a thread to talk about it in everything else? I just want updates on the deluxe vinyl.
    2 points
  14. can't say i'm surprised. dine alone pretty much enables this kind of behavior when they release something like that.
    2 points
  15. I never said I thought we should've seen the Lacey stuff coming. Nowhere in my posts did I suggest that. I've been a Brand New fan since Deja and always assumed (hoped?) he was writing characters as a means to criticize problematic behavior. I can't see the lyrics the same way anymore, because I'm a rational person who is considering that maybe someone I admired and gave the benefit of the doubt to for years didn't deserve it.
    2 points
  16. Thanks for this, though the site appears to have crashed.
    2 points
  17. Exactly! It's gaslighting at a distance, without even the courage to speak clearly. There's no reason and no excuse to mention her mental state, especially not when followed up with the sneakily accusatory, "But if her reputation is truly on the line..." bit.
    2 points
  18. 1% my ass. tons of comments here and on socials/other forums, including yours, range from grossly naive to a defense of pedophilia. your lil gem, quoted above, belongs to the former. everything you've named here – mental disorders, panic, deep trauma when confronted with dredging things up – is a textbook example of the vile outworkings of grooming, sexual abuse, and manipulation. the fact you interpret it as potential indication of slander is irresponsible and clearly indicates you should not comment so crassly on something you clearly have no experience with.
    2 points
  19. “I am going to completely smear this man’s reputation after a decade by revisiting this experience and bringing it to the public. I could potentially prove that what I am saying is 100% true, but I don’t know if I feel like revisiting the experience.” Alright man. Because that logic doesn’t necessarily check out to me, I guess I’m disgusting? Great to know. It’s also worth noting that I made that post as soon as the first accusation was made, well before Jesse’s statement. Fuck me for trying to keep a rational head and consider a larger picture, right? I still refer to the Conor Oberst incident, where a lot of people jumped the gun and immediately assumed he was a piece of shit without a shred of evidence. Did you scoff at those people too? What happens when the accused culprit turns out to be innocent? “Oh, whoops, looks like you guys were right and the whole thing was fabricated. My bad! lol” Am I close? But the fact Jesse made his statement after my post, and didn’t even address the age gap, is certainly concerning and really makes it impossible for anyone to defend him. Wish it wasn’t the case, but short of spelling out exactly what happened, I think we can all deduct that he’s rightfully in hot water and that more claims will bubble up to the surface, from the sounds of it.
    2 points
  20. People still need a line drawn in the sand for them to see whether pedophilia is OK or not.
    2 points
  21. You already made this """joke""" yesterday by the way and it's still just as void of humor as it was then. Please hurry up and get banned again.
    2 points
  22. I know how it makes me feel about not selling mine for that amount.
    1 point
  23. Sounds like proper late 90's throwback. Loud and dirty. Thanks. I might just snag a copy up. EDIT: Bought a copy. Hope they blow up someday.
    1 point
  24. The new Otto A Toteland is already available for PO from US distro Forced Exposure. Just put my order in. https://www.forcedexposure.com/Catalog/totland-otto-a-the-lost-lp/SONIC.026LP.html
    1 point
  25. Sorry if this was posted already, but there's a LACING full length out. I'm listening to it now and enjoying it a fair amount. I know some other folks in here liked the CS they released. https://eldermagickrecords.bandcamp.com/album/bummer
    1 point
  26. Mmm.... See, now, unlike Derek's posts - this one actually deserves some reprimand. They were 16. He was 24, famous, and King of the Scene. Have some common sense and try to imagine how easily someone in his position could manipulate these girls into thinking this was a good thing they had going until they grew up and realized he used them as masturbation material when they were too young to know better.
    1 point
  27. Seems like it will be another Sonic Pieces release. Oh my god, I know. So gorgeous! I've been lucky to get most of their releases in the hand-made cloth sleeves, with the exception of Pino
    1 point
  28. If anyone is so disgusted at their limited Brand New vinyl that it must find a new home to haunt, and must have it as far away from them as cheap as possible, send me a PM so I can relieve you of this great burden.
    1 point
  29. Also of interest: According to both Nils and Erased Tapes, Nils' long-awaited followup, All Melody, is set for release on January 26th, 2018. Cover art: Tracklist: The Whole Universe Wants To Be Touched 01:58 Sunson 09:10 A Place 07:02 My Friend The Forest 05:16 Human Range 06:59 Forever Changeless 02:47 All Melody 09:31 #2 09:40 Momentum 05:21 Fundamental Values 03:50 Kaleidoscope 08:16 Harm Hymn 04:10 More info and preorder available here: https://www.erasedtapes.com/release/eratp106-nils-frahm-all-melody His new studio looks incredible, too. Really excited for this one!
    1 point
  30. Amazing news - I've been waiting for a followup for so long. Pino is probably one of the most beautiful albums I have in my collection, and all of Sonic Pieces stuff is phenomenally well-made. Thanks for the heads up! I checked SP's instagram and looks like it's going to be limited to /350. Gonna go quick....hopefully I don't miss the preorder announcement.
    1 point
  31. I don't think any of the stuff they're repressed has been that over priced, some of the test presses on the other hand... However I like that they are giving people access to buy some of this stuff if they really want it maybe ebay would've been the better place for that stuff though... looking at what they have up on there now there's still bargains e.g. Discordance Axis 2LP's for $8, Oceanic Remixes 2LP for $10...
    1 point
  32. I don't. You've lied; so I feel pretty comfortable calling you the liar you obviously are. And you're too helplessly stupid to be worth the time a real discussion might take. So let's just leave it at that.
    1 point
  33. Again, you're comparing two very different things. Jesse Lacey being a mobster is far-fetched. Him being an abuser is not. Not because of his lyrics, but because it's simply a much more realistic scenario for a person to be an abuser than a "mobster". Also, let's not forget, HE ADMITTED TO IT.
    1 point
  34. lol, unrelated to the current back and forth - but do some of you really believe that if someone wrote something then it must be an immediate reflection of themselves, if not completely true and an accurate representation of them as a person? I mean is that real? Like... do you think George Lucas has a lot of space travel or light incest experience? Did Stephen King hack up his family one winter when he was stuck at a hotel? Did Conor Oberst's mom really drown his baby brother in a bathtub when he was a kid? Did Bob Marley really shoot the sheriff and the deputy? Or just the sheriff? Let's get over the fact that lyrics can mean anything and interpretation of their content, when it comes to something like this, is an idiotic waste of time. It was determined back in 2014 that violent rap lyrics could not be used as evidence in court cases... because they are FICTION.
    1 point
  35. 1 point
  36. Just an FYI, you don't need a VMP membership to buy the SVE album from their store. You'll notice it doesn't have a "Member's Exclusive" banner over it so anyone can buy it.
    1 point
  37. Who is ready for the Punisher???? I am
    1 point
  38. sorry, but you can't say something so daft and claim "devil's advocate." "devil's advocate" is reserved for a reasonable presentation of counterfactuals, and the fact you don't realize the first thing about the relationship of abuse, trauma, and mental illness disqualifies you here. as others have said, you're actually gaslighting and victim blaming, and talking out your hiney in doing so. perhaps, to be fair, it was initially an unwitting error on your part. but honestly you can be quiet about how misunderstood you are when your original point is, as you admit yourself, to undermine the credibility of a victim.
    1 point
  39. Looks like there's only circa 200 of the white vinyl with Alternative artwork available. US store states only 50 available and only around 130 available currently on the Europe store (presumably started at 150.) There's also an I Love LA 7" out this Friday available in UK indies that isn't on the Rough Trade Records store.
    1 point
  40. Did anyone catch anamanaguchi's livestream a few days ago? They played a bunch of new songs from the upcoming [USA] album. Here's the show: And the setlist:
    1 point
  41. Less Science Fiction, more Deja Entendu.
    1 point
  42. Insanely good. Don't miss out.
    1 point
  43. I know I should stay away from this thread by now but just like any good trainwreck it's really hard to look away.
    1 point
  44. You should specify NO FLIPPERS in the title, then.
    1 point
  45. I remember many years ago some guy at a record swap had on original pressing of Cool Struttin' in pristine condition for $200. I was younger and even poorer, but damn. Regrets.
    1 point
  46. I'm glad everyone can see how shitty this band is now.
    1 point
  47. No you’re usually just an all around asshole to anyone on the boards. Obviously Jhulud is one of the nicest dudes on here and he’s clearly not joking about pedophilia but apparently you think we all need to know how much of a self righteous prick you are.
    1 point
  48. God shut the fuck up with all your high horse posts on this messag board. You’re such a cunt.
    1 point
  49. Rosetta - Utopioid $8 + $2 ship KEEP - For Your Joy /50 Red Sonic $7 + $5 ship (need to fix the ship rate for multiples)
    1 point
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