Guest Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 distance yourself from her. if she pursues you after this... maybe she realized she messed up. if she doesn't, you've got other options too. Either way it doesn't sound like she wants to commit to you, and it kind of seems like you're looking for someone more exclusive with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjb2k1 Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 lolololol cuntress philviral 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unwound Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Friends with benefits? That's always tricky..more power to you if you can pull it off. I personally hate the idea of sharing, but that's me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noodle Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Friends with benefits? That's always tricky..more power to you if you can pull it off. I personally hate the idea of sharing, but that's me. swinging FTW! unwound 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
philviral Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 My last girl was a FWB and I closed things off with her to be with new girl. I'm def gonna be careful with this one but that's where it might end up until I meet someone else. I'm open to the idea of sharing, whatever, I just like honesty yanno? Texting is back to normal since we had our talk this morning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevin848 Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 So, since my last successful attempt at dating, it's been a year of nothing but dating failures and hook ups. I have started something new and told myself that I would not hook up with anyone (sex) unless I am seriously interested and dating the girl. I mean that really wouldn't take more than like 3-4 dates, so it's not that long. The problem is it has been like 2 months now, and it blows. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronniegwilliams Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 So, since my last successful attempt at dating, it's been a year of nothing but dating failures and hook ups. I have started something new and told myself that I would not hook up with anyone (sex) unless I am seriously interested and dating the girl. I mean that really wouldn't take more than like 3-4 dates, so it's not that long. The problem is it has been like 2 months now, and it blows. I did the same thing. After a long string of random hook ups, I decided I need to stop that shit and said I would only get with somebody I planned on being in a relationship. It lasted about two weeks as the girl I'm seeing now is definitely relationship material. Hang in there buddy, it'll happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjb2k1 Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 i always thought FWB and random hookups would be awesome. but it turns out i much prefer "in love in a relationship sex" honestly though, if you have needs, get it get it boyyyyy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 I divide things into categories. Like: sex, fucking, and making love. all different, all equally awesome in their own different ways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronniegwilliams Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 Good point Madie, that's how I've always divided things up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noodle Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 hanging out with the 24 year old gal previously mentioned later tonight. i decided to not discriminate age and give it a whirl. to be continued... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 19, 2012 Share Posted September 19, 2012 I divide things into categories. Like: sex, fucking, and making love. all different, all equally awesome in their own different ways. and then there are the days where you and a partner are just in the zone, and you hit for the cycle. guys i need sex so bad.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noodle Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 and then there are the days where you and a partner are just in the zone, and you hit for the cycle. guys i need sex so bad.. Step 1: Get off VC board Step 2: Find some chicks Step 3: Have sex with a chick, or chicks. ronniegwilliams 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 HOLY SHIT. peace y'all.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzersonKillwell Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 Is the difference between sex and fucking sort of like the difference between getting drunk on a Wednesday or getting drunk on a Saturday? Essentially the same thing, one just seems better? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 my friend and I came to the agreement that sex is classified as pretty vanilla, you both just want to get off/are watching tv during the act. fucking is hair pulling, up against the wall type business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
philviral Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 Is the difference between sex and fucking sort of like the difference between getting drunk on a Wednesday or getting drunk on a Saturday? Essentially the same thing, one just seems better? Getting drunk on a Wednesday is so much fun. Except for the part where you have to wake up at 8 the next morning.... and find yourself in a strange girl's bed... and then have to walk 5km back to your car so that you can drive home, shower, change, and head to work. (That was my story of the past 12 hours in case it wasn't obvious... god damn karaoke night!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronniegwilliams Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 I always figured sex was just routine sex, but fucking is as Madie described, some hurt the next day kind of stuff Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unwound Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 So what about making love? Curious to hear your ideas. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 Making love is done within the confines of marriage between a consenting man and woman, preferably both of the same race, religion, and social status . Duh. yocaseycasey, unwound, ronniegwilliams and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 So what about making love? Curious to hear your ideas. making love is the whole stare into each others eyes I truly madly deeply love you type of thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
000000 Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 making love is the whole stare into each others eyes I truly madly deeply love you type of thing. while this is playing in the background. yocaseycasey 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
controlthebleeding Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 i don't even want to say what i think fucking is compared to making love. truthfully i think a little of both over a 3-5 hour session is the way to go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noodle Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 any VC'ers ever meet up and do the dirty? those who have failed on match, etc may have better luck here! you'll at least have one thing in common. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 worked for me on the brand new forum haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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