I dunno, maybe cuz my friends and I don't listen to stuff like that. We dont enjoy dancing to that. So why would I want it played at my wedding. Obviously, some of it will be played, but not constantly. Its my wedding, I want it to fit me. At the same time, I don't want to offend my grandmother with some absurdly obnoxious song either. But I mean, some Chris Murray, some Allister, something melodic but not to the r&b side is what I am looking for. Don't enjoy it? Fine, its not your wedding.