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pickrunner18

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  1. so last night with the ex went well, and today we had dinner and now we're at a mall. things still feel kind of weird with the whole situation though.

    I really want to just ask her how she feels so I'm not stuck wasting my time like this. a rejection now would hurt, but not nearly as much as if I were to keep this hanging out thing up for another week or two

  2. I dont know what they have done, but she speaks negatively about them whenever they come up. We've been officially together since September, but were talking for a long time before that. She told me shes afraid to get attached and shes basically forcing herself not to. Im patient and have no problem being patient, I just dont want her to force herself not to so that when she feels like she is, she winds up breaking up with me because shes scared. 

     

    she has to be afraid of getting hurt or being too dependent. it sucks that she's forcing herself not to get more attached, but hopefully she'll come around with more time. just let her know that you have no problem with how long it takes so she doesn't feel any pressure

  3. first off, how long have you guys been dating?

     

    second, be patient (depending on your answer to the first question). I don't think attachment is something that can be forced (not saying that's what you're trying to do), but she'll get attached to you eventually, especially if you're different/better than other guys she's dated. is she afraid because people have hurt her in the past?

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