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Dashhax

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  1. What I'm reading are some insecurity problems, and some lack of self-worth.  If your gf broke up with you and is seeing some other dude then fuck her, you deserve better than that.  No need to get hung up on it no matter how much time and energy you've put into the relationship.  You need to understand that you're young and good looking and could swing some chick right now at this very moment if you wanted to.  If she treated you like shit or one of the parties in the relationship wasn't happy then it's just for the better.  You're worth more than that.   You can lay pipe all of town if you wanted to, whether you're able to see it or not.  There's literally millions of fish in the sea, it's short sighted to think the one chick you got with in your twenties in your specific local region is the only one for you.  Go out there and swing some beetches, man.  But as cliche and cheesy as it sounds, you really can't learn to love someone else until you start to love yourself first.  

     

    As for being jealous if your girl is out with friends, you need to get over that, right quick, if you want to get with any decent and self-respecting lady.  Girls just wanna have fun man, like the song.  Let them go out and have fun, even if it's with guy friends.  They don't need to text you the whole time because that's the whole point of "trust," you know, it's that little thing that people say the foundation of all relationships are built on.  Go out with "girl-friends" if that's what you want to do especially if she is hanging out with guy friends, it's unfair to deprive yourself of social interactions because you think she'll get jealous when she's doing the same shit to you.  But you can't play the jealousy game and keep tabs of "oh she's gone out with friends x number times so I'm owed a night out with a lady friend" or something.  Just do what's right when it's right.  You'll know if something is for sure up if you have an open and honest relationship and need to have trust in that.  And if she can't have an open and honest relationship than fuck it, you're worth more than that.  

     

     

    That's deep man thanks for the advice. I'm actually going out with a girl from work right now. I've gotten a few text from girls today that want to hang so I think I'm going to start doing that.

  2. I didnt think that at all,but yes I agree completely. 

     

    She told me she didn't like me hanging out with girls but she would always say its not like I can tell you what to do. But when I got asked to go out to dinner or a movie I always declined because I thought it would bother her. Now I kind of regret not doing it when she would go out with friends from work while I stayed home. I never minded her going out to dinner with guys but it's just that it'd always be so late at night or she would go to their house afterwards for an hour. She would always tell me she was going to eat or to someones house, but it still bothered me.

  3. Yeah I would do the same thing when it came to taking care of her and making her feel special because she too was in bad relationships before. I think its a thing that they get weirded out and dont know how to handle that when they have something good. Its fucking stupid. 

     

    Don't get me wrong I didn't let her walk over me or anything. I just believe every women needs to feel special. I have plenty of problems myself and would never blame everything on her. It's just waiting for her to get home at night texting me she's home after 1 am bothers me. I think in the long run I can't deal with a women like that. 

  4. Yeah I mean if the first things that come to mind are all negative thats probably the best thing you can do to break it off. But why do you love her? If the first things that come to mind are negative what is it that makes you love her? Are the negative thoughts that hit you first happening because of what youre going through? Or was it always like that. With my ex I didnt have any negative thoughts until the bad shit started happening. And even then the first things and most things that would come to mind werent negative. 

     

    I love her personality her body the way she talks and does things for me. She'd drive 45 minutes to come and visit me take me out to dinner and a movie and pay. The following week I would do the same for her. She was in all bad relationships before and I liked taking care of her and making her feel special. I guess im not trusting enough. I always felt like she was up to something so it made me feel like shit. I think all the cons came to the top of my head because of all the stuff that's been going on.

  5. she blocked me on instagram/twitter so I dont have to worry about that, but for some reason her username still comes up if she likes a friends photo that I follow. I saw on snapchat (before she blocked me on that) that she was talking to some dude which made me want to puke so I know what you mean about the who they are with thing. Tears me apart knowing theres someone else replacing me. 

     

    What has been helping me was making a pros and con list about our relation. I knew it wasn't meant to be when the first thoughts off my mind are all negative. We were never even officially boyfriend/girlfriend and yet a lot of things would bother me about her. I loved her and still do now. Even though we haven;t officially stated we are breaking it off I feel like it's the right thing to do.

  6. I couldnt eat or sleep for awhile, I lost a good amount of weight from it. Its so hard trying to not think about her when everything reminds me of her. Like I dont even want to play NHL 14 cause she bought it for me. Ill see her name pop up on instagram on a friends photo or something and get a sick feeling in my stomach. The worst is the dreams. I still get them evvvvvvery fucking night.

     

    What I would suggest is don't delete them from facebook, instagram etc. Just block them from updates as well as friends that way you don't have to see it. The hardest part is wondering what they are doing or who they are with. With time I'm sure it will go away but I think the best thing you could do you are already doing it, and that's not talking to her.

  7. Nope. Havent spoken in over a month. And its still killing me haha

     

    I feel ya buddy. I'm trying to break it off with this girl I've been seeing for the last 8 months. When we argue or I don't know what shes doing it makes me physically sick to the point where I cant eat or sleep.

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