theambulancereview Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 Hello VC comrades. The lady of 5 years has done the splitting, can I get some smiles? ??? Records aren't fun, but Lucero I hear is a good way to go, no? Direct me, clearly I'm lost. P.S. I'm going by "Tom" now because it sounds more grown up. Yay? Nay? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goraiders Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 sorry to hear. lucero is great for laying in bed and feeling sorry for yourself, which is what I usually want to do after things like this. If you want to try to cheer yourself up thats not the way to go though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brotherkyle Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 feeling sorry for yourself fucking sucks. get with your friends and watch swingers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xjustinxschwierx Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 jawbreaker & the cure all the way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
martyk36 Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 Elliott Smith/Jets To Brazil/SLAYER on repeat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daniel Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 glassjaw did wonders for me, even though my ex isn't a whore. just being angry at women in general will make the pain subside faster. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jurrobear Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 Go with the firs GlassJaw album and The Cure, it'll make a good mix, just dont feel bad for yourself. Their are plenty of girls around, you'll bounce back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chaps Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 Hello VC comrades.The lady of 5 years has done the splitting, can I get some smiles? ??? Records aren't fun, but Lucero I hear is a good way to go, no? Direct me, clearly I'm lost. P.S. I'm going by "Tom" now because it sounds more grown up. Yay? Nay? Sorry to hear that broski. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riddle350 Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 glassjaw is backed. after you spend some time being angry put Frank Turner "Reasons Not To Be An Idiot" on repeat and go do kick ass stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theambulancereview Posted March 16, 2010 Author Share Posted March 16, 2010 I've rediscovered Biscayne's "You'd Build A Robot" Helping lift the spirits a tad. Got a lot of shows coming up, so keeping busy shouldn't really be a problem. I'm having lunch with her dad tomorrow. I'm not sure why but for some reason I really feel compelled to talk to him like he can help weaken the blow a little or something I dunno? Good idea or bad? Now my goal is to hook up with as many black girls as i can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fartcat Posted March 17, 2010 Share Posted March 17, 2010 The Decline. Twice. Buy your parents a new wall. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lechevre Posted March 17, 2010 Share Posted March 17, 2010 Smoking Popes-Destination Failure The Streets- A Grand Don't Come For Free Bottle of Maker's Mark. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlovecolouredx Posted March 17, 2010 Share Posted March 17, 2010 don't stay alone. be with your dudes for don't spend time without any thinking. i hope your blue will go. sooner than what i face with.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laurenxvx Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 Man, I forgot how much I loved Glassjaw. I don't know you, but hanging out with friends is definitely a good idea, try not to be alone. Pick up a new hobby to keep your mind off of things. If you don't already have a pet and can get one, consider it. Having a new companion around might soften the blow. Keep your space. I'm not sure if the lunch with the dad thing is going to be good for you, it might make her mad. I know personally when I broke up with my last long term boyfriend (it was only 2 years though) he emailed my dad behind my back and sent him a shirt from Tommy Bahama and offered to take him to Hawaii in place of me since I broke up with him. WEIRD. Anyway, I know it made me mad to break up with him and him try to keep ties. I guess it wouldn't have been as bad if we didn't end on bad terms, but we did. Get rid of memory triggers, those won't help you at all. Also, make a wishlist? (of things you want to accomplish--and work toward them) Lastly, change your ringtone (a friend suggested that to me, and while it's weird, it was good for me in the long run because when my phone rang, I didn't automatically think it was him calling) and get a haircut. (I know that's a "girly" suggestion, but I have done it and it helped.) and remember that time heals most things. Sorry I just wrote you a novel. I hope this helps you, even a little. Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thechuckdiezel Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 Man, I forgot how much I loved Glassjaw.I don't know you, but hanging out with friends is definitely a good idea, try not to be alone. Pick up a new hobby to keep your mind off of things. If you don't already have a pet and can get one, consider it. Having a new companion around might soften the blow. Keep your space. I'm not sure if the lunch with the dad thing is going to be good for you, it might make her mad. I know personally when I broke up with my last long term boyfriend (it was only 2 years though) he emailed my dad behind my back and sent him a shirt from Tommy Bahama and offered to take him to Hawaii in place of me since I broke up with him. WEIRD. Anyway, I know it made me mad to break up with him and him try to keep ties. I guess it wouldn't have been as bad if we didn't end on bad terms, but we did. Get rid of memory triggers, those won't help you at all. Also, make a wishlist? (of things you want to accomplish--and work toward them) Lastly, change your ringtone (a friend suggested that to me, and while it's weird, it was good for me in the long run because when my phone rang, I didn't automatically think it was him calling) and get a haircut. (I know that's a "girly" suggestion, but I have done it and it helped.) and remember that time heals most things. Sorry I just wrote you a novel. I hope this helps you, even a little. Good luck! This is actually great advice could not have said things better myself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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