laralaurent Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 have i mentioned that I'm jealous a group of you all live relatively close to each other. and I have NO ONE!! :( the closest to me are my hottie pattoties down in texas. therefore, we should probably do austin city limits one year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 we need to make it happen some Saturday this spring/summer. I just have to know in advance so I can find someone to watch my brother! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonesomexloveus Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 I just have to know in advance so I can find someone to watch my brother! just have the sims watch him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hippielauryn Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 the closest to me are my hottie pattoties down in texas. therefore, we should probably do austin city limits one year. I'm going to be in Colorado and Nebraska this summer, but that's as far North as it goes. Really looking forward to spending a week + in Colorado though. You'll have to tell me all the places we should go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 have i mentioned that I'm jealous a group of you all live relatively close to each other. and I have NO ONE!! :( I'll probs be visiting a friend in Ohio this summer? If you live there by then we can get shwasted?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 yay!!! take me to the gay bar, show me your ways. I'll have no one to go to the bay bar with in ohio </3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laralaurent Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 I'm going to be in Colorado and Nebraska this summer, but that's as far North as it goes. Really looking forward to spending a week + in Colorado though. You'll have to tell me all the places we should go. ooh exciting!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 yay!!! take me to the gay bar, show me your ways. I'll have no one to go to the bay bar with in ohio </3Absolutely, my friend said she went to one in Colombus last week. Bruise ain't about that life? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 he actually did go with me once where i live, but I think he'd pick other bars if given the choice lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted March 27, 2014 Share Posted March 27, 2014 hahaha I think most straight guys would Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonesomexloveus Posted March 27, 2014 Share Posted March 27, 2014 one of my best friends from high school lives in the castro in san francisco (he and his boyfriend are getting married in december and i get to photograph it and i am SOEXCITEDGUYYYSSSS) and my best guy friend was out there for a conference for grad school, so he visited him. friend from san francisco took my extremely straight visiting friend out to a gay bar with him, and extremely straight friend was extremely disappointed that no gay guys hit on him. 'am i not good looking?! i'm ok looking right?!' oh, honey. please look at that untucked plaid button-up, loose fitting jeans, and non-descript 40-year-old-man brown comfort dress shoes you're constantly wearing. those dudes probably took one look at him and were like 'nooooot even wasting my time. straightest man on the planet.' it was just hilarious that he was mildly hurt and offended that he didn't get hit on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laralaurent Posted March 27, 2014 Share Posted March 27, 2014 Absolutely, my friend said she went to one in Colombus last week. Bruise ain't about that life? There are a ton of fun gay bars in Columbus. A couple of years ago I made it back east to visit friends going from Ohio to DC to Delaware to Philly and then Pittsburgh. Swear all we did was go to gay bars so we call it the Gay Bar Tour of 2012. Never danced so much in my life during those 10 days. It was awesome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted March 27, 2014 Share Posted March 27, 2014 There are a ton of fun gay bars in Columbus. A couple of years ago I made it back east to visit friends going from Ohio to DC to Delaware to Philly and then Pittsburgh. Swear all we did was go to gay bars so we call it the Gay Bar Tour of 2012. Never danced so much in my life during those 10 days. It was awesome.Sounds like a good time. I'm going to Chicago for a weekend in a month and want to hit up one there. I'm kinda scared? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 27, 2014 Share Posted March 27, 2014 Yes girl, I has the BEST time in boys town when I went to Chicago. I wore leather pants. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted March 28, 2014 Share Posted March 28, 2014 I've never even been to Chicago. Idk what im doing but I'm gunna be with a bunch of homos so yeeeeea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laralaurent Posted March 28, 2014 Share Posted March 28, 2014 I love love love Chicago. In my top 3 for favorite cities. Haven't been to any gay bars out there but I expect you'll have a great time. I could wander downtown for hours and checking out the bean is always cool Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hippielauryn Posted March 28, 2014 Share Posted March 28, 2014 Yes!! Chicago is the greatest!! I have family near there and my sister and I always take the train to and from Chicago. We just wander around aimlessly, bar hop, go to the beach and have the best time ever. Soooo much to do and see you will have a blast! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danionly Posted March 28, 2014 Share Posted March 28, 2014 All this talk makes me realize I need to travel more. And go to a gay bar. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoyceMannerisms Posted March 30, 2014 Share Posted March 30, 2014 ladies i need some more advice. i don't meet a lot of new people, and when i do it's usually at a party or a friend's house. and whenever i meet someone that i think is interesting that i'd like to get to know better, they talk to me until they meet one of my better looking friends and focus all of their attention on them. it's happened countless times. i think i am a funny and interesting person, but iam not that physically attractive compared to my friends, and i have resigned to the fact that anyone i have a crush on is going to have a crush on one of my friends instead. it's really hard to have my hopes crushed time after time. what do i do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danionly Posted March 30, 2014 Share Posted March 30, 2014 I know how you feel. Someone once told me that I was 'the personality' and my friend was 'the looks' and if we could combine, we'd make the perfect girlfriend. That was almost a decade ago and I'll never forget it. If the connection isn't there, it isn't there and they aren't worth your time. I would try other ways to meet new people, where the focus would be more on you and them, instead of a party setting. A lot of people have had success with dating websites. Theres also meetup.com, which is more for finding people with the same interests as you, instead of strictly dating. I just think if you feel shadowed by your friends, try doing your own thing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted March 30, 2014 Share Posted March 30, 2014 I think Dani hit the nail on the head with this one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted March 30, 2014 Share Posted March 30, 2014 Yup, I third Dani's statement. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoyceMannerisms Posted March 30, 2014 Share Posted March 30, 2014 yeah, i've been told almost the exact same thing. i think i'm known in my circle of friends as "the funny one" and i often find myself at the head of group conversations, making everyone else laugh. but no one seems to find that compelling. i've tried online dating off and on for the last year but it's just as frustrating. when i don't put a photo up i get tons of messages based just on my profile, and as soon as i put up a picture they stop sending or replying to my messages. there was a few people who i had a great online conversation with so i decided to meet them in person and i think they were disappointed in how i looked when they met me. i live in a small city so the well is basically dry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hippielauryn Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 Wow. I knew people were shallow, but that's just fucking mean. If you have a good head on your shoulders and a loving heart then that is all that should really matter. I would say keep at it. Online dating can be beneficial because you can really get to know someone without actually meeting them. Also what Dani said, try going it alone and see if you can get someone's attention. It's always more attractive to have someone you can talk and relate to, then someone who is good looking that you have nothing in common with. I guess most people are just looking for a physical attraction and don't want a real relationship, but they won't get far because looks fade and your personality is forever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 yea people are dicks. hippielauryn 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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