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I was nervous as hell when I talked to my gf's father. After that things were fine. I had a sick decoy present going during christmas which she thought was a ring. Then, after all the presents were opened, her mom goes "Oh, there's this one present which didn't have a name on it" and she gave it to my gf. The ring was in there. The best part was that her three brother didn't even notice because they were arguing about what kind of TV the one brother was going to buy.

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My long-distance girlfriend just called me and seriously brought up the moving-to-Cleveland idea (we've sort of kidded about it before, but she knows I won't relocate because of my career so it's pretty much on her). I didn't know how to react, mainly because I was so shocked by it (she has pretty staunchly stated she's not leaving Chicago any time soon, either). Totally nervous about what will happen next.

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My long-distance girlfriend just called me and seriously brought up the moving-to-Cleveland idea (we've sort of kidded about it before, but she knows I won't relocate because of my career so it's pretty much on her). I didn't know how to react, mainly because I was so shocked by it (she has pretty staunchly stated she's not leaving Chicago any time soon, either). Totally nervous about what will happen next.

Nervous in a good or bad way?

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My long-distance girlfriend just called me and seriously brought up the moving-to-Cleveland idea (we've sort of kidded about it before, but she knows I won't relocate because of my career so it's pretty much on her). I didn't know how to react, mainly because I was so shocked by it (she has pretty staunchly stated she's not leaving Chicago any time soon, either). Totally nervous about what will happen next.

Nervous in a good or bad way?

Not sure; if she were to move here, it would definitely be my most serious relationship of my life thus far, and I'd be terrified of fucking it up mainly because I would've made her move here for me and then I'd end up being a schmuck.

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Nervous in a good or bad way?

Not sure; if she were to move here, it would definitely be my most serious relationship of my life thus far, and I'd be terrified of fucking it up mainly because I would've made her move here for me and then I'd end up being a schmuck.

MADE her move there? In what sense would you have MADE her, because of your unwillingness to move there due to your job, or because you think your presence is just that magnetic?

Life is just kinda like that, man. Nervousness aside, it's not like anybody could predict the outcome. I wouldn't waffle on the issue due to jitters.

also, not that it has anything to do with anything, but Chicago > Cleveland.

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MADE her move there? In what sense would you have MADE her, because of your unwillingness to move there due to your job, or because you think your presence is just that magnetic?

What I mean is, I have told her since the beginning that I will not move. My career is here, I own a house, etc. -- as far as I'm concerned, relocation is not an option for me. So if she were to move here, it would be because I was unwilling to move there, which makes me feel like I'm making her do it to make the relationship work.

Does that make sense? I wasn't trying to imply like I have all this power over her or something.

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MADE her move there? In what sense would you have MADE her, because of your unwillingness to move there due to your job, or because you think your presence is just that magnetic?

What I mean is, I have told her since the beginning that I will not move. My career is here, I own a house, etc. -- as far as I'm concerned, relocation is not an option for me. So if she were to move here, it would be because I was unwilling to move there, which makes me feel like I'm making her do it to make the relationship work.

Does that make sense? I wasn't trying to imply like I have all this power over her or something.

I should have used one of these jobbies after that part of my post ;D I just woke up and fail at sarcasm.

I know it's because you can't move out there. I just think it's one of those things in life where you've gotta just grab on and see what happens.

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