bigbruise Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 Pretty lame of her to put that on Twitter, or any other social network really. If she want's space give it to her I guess. Try not to show interest, and show that you also have a life outside of her. The more you show you don't care, the more women want you to care. Plus, I stayed at a Holiday Inn Express last night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KennyFuckingPowers Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 As much as I would love to do that. Something is just preventing me from doing so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigbruise Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 You're going to look clingy man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KennyFuckingPowers Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 Ugh I know. And it fucking sucks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigbruise Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 I was in your same spot when I was 18-20, somewhere in there. It felt like my insides wanted to jump out, it sucked. My Grandpa gave me that advice, which is very common advice, but it still clicked and worked. You're a grown man! (I hope ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 Call her and break up with her, or tell her you don't want anything to do with her anymore. See if she calls your bluff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 i feel your pain, man. it's so easy for someone to say "hey, just leave her to herself, space, occupy yourself, blah blah blah" no. this is a situation where it's nearly impossible for the head and the heart to do the right thing. every time this happened with my ex and i, i would just drive her away, make a mess of myself, and we'd eventually get back together, because she'd eventually realize she was being stupid. but as i've said a hundred times in here, a relationship can't succeed when you break up that many times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KennyFuckingPowers Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 i feel your pain, man. it's so easy for someone to say "hey, just leave her to herself, space, occupy yourself, blah blah blah" no. this is a situation where it's nearly impossible for the head and the heart to do the right thing. every time this happened with my ex and i, i would just drive her away, make a mess of myself, and we'd eventually get back together, because she'd eventually realize she was being stupid. but as i've said a hundred times in here, a relationship can't succeed when you break up that many times. Im glad you responded to this due to the fact your posts are usually the ones I agree with most Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 I wonder how many relationships social media has ruined. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cymbalism15 Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 a relationship can't succeed when you break up that many times. QUOTED FOR TRUTH. Why don't people understand this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cymbalism15 Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 I wonder how many relationships social media has ruined. Probably a few but mostly it just makes everyone passive aggressive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 I think I've personally watched half a dozen relationships crumble via Facebook Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cymbalism15 Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 I think I've personally watched half a dozen relationships crumble via Facebook It definitely makes the relationship public which is weird for everyone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzersonKillwell Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 I wonder how many relationships social media has ruined. None. They were already ruined. Social media just provides a public forum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cymbalism15 Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 None. They were already ruined. Social media just provides a public forum. It's like a car accident, you feel weird watching but you can't look away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dashhax Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 Ugh I know. And it fucking sucks. It really hurts when you can't get someone out of your mind. Especially if you over think that the other person isn't thinking about you. My solution as temporary as it is usually just trying to stay out of contact from that person until they feel ready to talk. Doing anything to occupy yourself helps likes going for a run or doing some sort of exercise. Best of luck with the situation Matt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzersonKillwell Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 It's like a car accident, you feel weird watching but you can't look away. I wouldn't get too hung up on it. It's like a car wreck the driver has given you permission to watch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KennyFuckingPowers Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 It really hurts when you can't get someone out of your mind. Especially if you over think that the other person isn't thinking about you. My solution as temporary as it is usually just trying to stay out of contact from that person until they feel ready to talk. Doing anything to occupy yourself helps likes going for a run or doing some sort of exercise. Best of luck with the situation Matt. I think one of my biggest problems is I over think things. And it fucking ruins everything. I always explode out of nervousness and scared anger on people when that happens. Im personally trying to get help for that problem. However, do I text her tomorrow when the ball drops? That is the question. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigbruise Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 Ry is right about it being MUCH easier said than done. But I still believe you (generally speaking) have to give the space the person desires and have a life outside of her/him. But, yeah I would text her, or better yet call her. If she doesn't answer or respond to that, with that moment being "romantic" for couples or whatever...you'll kind of know she has better things to do. Anything you do, text, call, or try to get a conversation out of her...I wouldn't press it too much. Send one (1) text! If no response that's ok because you're getting drunk and fucking bitches with the boys, amirite? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KennyFuckingPowers Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 Send one (1) text! If no response that's ok because you're getting drunk and fucking bitches with the boys, amirite? Nope, #straightedgeprobs hahaha billya 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KennyFuckingPowers Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 However normally (past relationships), I would be trying to bang girls while I was going through this kinda situation. However this girl was just a game changer for me. I also think Ive just matured. Who knows. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Team Avatar Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 you should favorite her tweet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 you should favorite her tweet oh hell naw Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dashhax Posted January 1, 2013 Share Posted January 1, 2013 She said she wanted space I think the best thing to do would be to give it to her. Text or not wait for her to call or text you and find out where you are at. Once you start calling or texting her you lose all control. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudeboydh Posted January 1, 2013 Share Posted January 1, 2013 Here's some man advice: Shampoo and condition your beard. It's amazing. 000000 and yocaseycasey 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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