hyperinactive Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 It's time to find a new place to live for me come august 1st and i am sticking with one of the roommates i have now but we CANT live with our other roommate. hes a slob, never turns lights off, is always on the couch, annoying, etc. All after constantly asking, he never changes, so talking to him isnt an option. but, i am good friends with him and he is going to be super pissed because he will have no one else to live with. so how should i tell him? what lies can i make up? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kirbypuckett Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 Don't lie, that'll probably just cause other problems. Just straight up tell him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snaggle Von Swift Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 Don't lie, that'll probably just cause other problems. Just straight up tell him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edgefest Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 I was in a similar situation once when I lived in a house with four other dudes. When I came time to move, one of them wanted to live somewhere where he could have house shows & the rest of us didn't, so that was no problem there. Myself & one of the other two wanted to get a place together, but didn't want any issues with the third person so we just told him that if he wanted to remain friends that it would not be a good idea to keep living together because we were getting sick of him as a roommate. That seemed to work out & there were no hard feelings. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melvinscam Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 write a musical about the situation and perform it in your living room Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
counterfiction Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 mushroom cap him in his sleep. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andrew13 Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 shit on his pillow under the pillowcase and put it back on his bed. wait for hilarity and him leaving to ensue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coldsnap Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 Don't lie, that'll probably just cause other problems. Just straight up tell him. this. just be honest dude. I was in this situation before. I used to live with one of my friend, he was an awesome dude and really good friend but when it came to live with him it was a mess. He never washed his dishes, kitchen was a complete mess and i'm the opposite of that. So yeah, when it came time for me to leave, I told him the truth about all this and there was no problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flicker Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 tell him you just dont love him anymore and youd be more comfortable if you didnt have to see him every day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jawbroken Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 It's time to find a new place to live for me come august 1st and i am sticking with one of the roommates i have now but we CANT live with our other roommate. hes a slob, never turns lights off, is always on the couch, annoying, etc. All after constantly asking, he never changes, so talking to him isnt an option.but, i am good friends with him and he is going to be super pissed because he will have no one else to live with. so how should i tell him? what lies can i make up? haha i had that EXACT same problem. we just kinda went out looking for house and dropping hints. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
electricsnow Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 write a musical about the situation and perform it in your living room This! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest kevinb Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 write a musical about the situation and perform it in your living room This! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhulud Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 Just flat out tell him. Good friend or not, the guy is a slob and irresponsible like you have stated. Feelings will get hurt but that's part of being an adult...he needs to take responsability for himself and actions, and once the negatives start affecting those around him, especially those he lives with, time to move on and out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lechevre Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 Change the locks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
controlthebleeding Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 just be straight with him. lies eventually come out. and that's not good for anyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magalvsr13 Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 hello roomate, i don't want to live with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flicker Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 just tell him you think you want to be more than friends and then reach for his junk. problem solved. either he leaves or you get laid. win-win, amirite!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kurtmanner Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 just tell him you think you want to be more than friends and then reach for his junk.problem solved. either he leaves or you get laid. win-win, amirite!? Actually, lose-lose, because either way there's still a mess to clean up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlovecolouredx Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 i know how hard to ask your roommate for move. that's why i never want to share my space with anybody.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whateverrrr Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 move in with your boyfriend. that's what i'm doing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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