Guest kylewilliam Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 after two years of living together, jillian and i broke up. it was an intense, insane, and beneficial relationship, and i am going to be torn up about it for a long time to come... how have you all dealt with your breakups? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
electricsnow Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 poorly. it sucks. wish the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fourfourtwo Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 drink & fuck. I heard thats the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
destroyingthescene Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 Video games and records. Oh, and lots of bad and irrational decisions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davezer Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 Spent as much time with friends as I could. Keep your mind off shit. Get out of the house as often as possible. I did that and drank a lot (not recommended but it helped). and also: lots of bad and irrational decisions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goraiders Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 that sucks, IMO you can't really make it better. Just do what you do and eventually it'll be over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
impact Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 keep your mind occupied. start doing new hobbies, or bring back old ones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
motorbike Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 living well is the best revenge. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casey Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 keep your mind occupied.start doing new hobbies, or bring back old ones. This. Just pour yourself into whatever makes you feel good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kirbypuckett Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 Beer and friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bruins4ever Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 Beer, records, funny movies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lechevre Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 Smokin popes- destination failure the streets- a grand don't come for free maker's mark. Within a few days I was usually okay. But that's just me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brotherkyle Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 It sucks man. No matter what anyone says it won't make you feel better, but time eases the pain. Last fall I was devastated when my ex and i broke up, but now I'm doing well and have met this amazing girl because of it. It gets easier. I promise. Best advice I have is to let your records sing your blues. Wish you the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alertthemute Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 Try to go on a roadtrip or something with a couple of friends. Of course this won't negate your feelings but having good experiences will help you realize that you can still have fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 get drunk, get crunk, get fuuuuuuuuuucked up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tobinownlife Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 I'm going through this right now. I have lived with her for 2.5 years and dated her for 1.5. Now it's moving into the " I should move out part" and she always wants to know why I don't want to be with her. She seems to brush off the obvious answers I give her. I'm almost incapable of dealing with it. It just didn't work and I'm afraid it won't again. Not sure I can deal with it again. It just didn't seem fair sometimes and I can't deal with the inconsistencies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kjg12590 Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 Try to go on a roadtrip or something with a couple of friends. Of course this won't negate your feelings but having good experiences will help you realize that you can still have fun. This. A massive roadtrip helped me alot after my last breakup. Don't forget to listen to Conor Oberst -S/T while you're on the road. It's the perfect recovery combo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
selfreliable Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 Listen to lots of Hank Williams. That man can fix anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jasonskanks Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 cut myself. no but seriously sorry to hear that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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mattstrike Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 My shrink helped me immensely, as did the cafe next to her office where I met, and fell in love with, Amy. Eventually (and hopefully), you will feel that the break-up was the best thing for you, that it happened for a reason, and that you are much, much better off now than you were then. When you get to that place, you will not be able to imagine how you ever felt loss in the first place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lokithelion Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 Listen to this DC Talk song that disses Jars of Clay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brotherkyle Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 Listen to lots of Hank Williams. That man can fix anything. backed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlovecolouredx Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 http://listen.grooveshark.com/#/song/Trusty+Chords/32941 i hope this song will help you, kyle. in my opinion, practice, write more song and book more date on tour may help you. you lost her but you still have your music.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
selfreliable Posted February 7, 2010 Share Posted February 7, 2010 Oddly enough, the ad I see at the top of the page in this thread is how to get woman back after they dumped you. Go Google ads, they are trying to help you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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