heavyheavylowlow Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 So two good friends of mine are now bumping uglies. And it's werid to be around them. Weird because they met through me and I know it's a relationship built on desperation and convenience. And they keep asking me about each other. And it creeps me out. I know non of you care, but it should be good for some cheap laughs right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhulud Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 I've never been in this situation...as a witness to two friends hooking up or hooking up with a friend. I can't even begin to imagine how awkward it is for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danthemjfan23 Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 And they keep asking me about each other. And it creeps me out. i'll do you one better. my best girl friend in high school. told me everything. she had an eating disorder and was hooked on painkillers and etc. i was one of 2 people that knew. she was the second. my best guy friend in high school. told me EVERYTHING. he called me ten minutes after he lost his virginity. i taught him how to play basketball (we'd been friends/neighbors since i was 7 and he was 5). i hooked him up with booking shows/making merch/etc. for his band since i'm on radio stations. anyway, they didn't know each other. they randomly met through another mutual friend. and since they were each my best friend, they had obviously heard me talk about the other one, and knew how close i was to them. obviously, though, i couldn't tell the other one the secrets i knew about them. but they knew i knew shit. and they would both tell me everything they did. and i would have to act surprised (like i was hearing it for the first time) when the second person would tell me. it sucked. things got REALLY shitty though when they started hitting the skids. she was in love with him, like hardcore in love. first true love type of shit. and he wasn't in love with her anymore. he thought he was at first, but he realized he wasn't. and i knew it because he told me. and she knew something was wrong, and asked me all the time what was up. but i couldn't tell her, cause that's not my place. long story short, shit hits the fan, i speak to neither of them really anymore. sucks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heavyheavylowlow Posted April 20, 2009 Author Share Posted April 20, 2009 Ok Dan, you definately win. I thought it was kinda fucked up how they both came round my house and we were drinking and then I lost them for about 20 mins whilst they went did stuff in my bed (without asking me:o). But I don't know deep shit that could fuck with my head like you had. Sorry you went through that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danthemjfan23 Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 yeah, it sucked REAL bad. she and i are finally starting to talk a little bit now, but things are still super weird from a bunch of other circumstances that arose from the situation. he and i tried to work things out a few times over the past 4 years, but he's just not the same person he was back then. which is fine, i understand that people change. but the person he is today is somebody i don't want to associate with. oh well. you live, you learn. :-\ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rtw88 Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 Man, that sucks. Two of my really good friends are dating, and it's pretty cool. I've known the girl for almost 10 years now, and I've been friends with the dude for at least 5 years. I'd imagine shit might get messy if they ever split, but so far it's nice because I always get to hang out with both of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danthemjfan23 Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 so far it's nice because I always get to hang out with both of them. this was a HUGE upside while they were still together. i had my own gf at the time who i had been dating about a year at that point. splitting time between her, and my two best friends, but not being able to hang out with any two at the same time really, that sucked. but when my friends got with each other, then we could double date. or just, hang out as couples. those were a few really really good months. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lokithelion Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 Shit my best friend and my fiancees best friend (who are both in our respective wedding parties for our wedding) just broke up. My father as already assured me he'll take care of business if either of them start shit. Fuck I love my dad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest duhpunk Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 worst situation ever. flashback to senior year of high school. i asked my friend Tristan to play drums for me in the talent portion of an all guys pageant the school was having, and my friend Tiffany was my escort. after they met, Tiffany asked me if he was single. i told her yes, but immediately told Tristan that she was bad news, to avoid her. well, they hooked up that night anyways, and started dating. as a result, they were both blowing me and our other friends off constantly until i finally told them how i felt and they basically ex-communicated me, costing me quite a few mutual friends in the long run. they ended up getting married after she cheated on him and faked a pregnancy to get him back, but now they're separated, so all is right in the universe. Tristan and i are still good friends now my best friend is dating another friend. no major problems yet, except that she can be a royal pain in the ass sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divaface Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 My best friend at the time introduced me to my (current) boyfriend (she was dating his younger brother). Apparently we were just supposed to hook up once or twice, but when we started dating, she got pissed and straight up stopped talking to me. Kind of awkward when we're dating brothers and both over their house all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
controlthebleeding Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 worst situation ever. flashback to senior year of high school. i asked my friend Tristan to play drums for me in the talent portion of an all guys pageant the school was having, and my friend Tiffany was my escort. after they met, Tiffany asked me if he was single. i told her yes, but immediately told Tristan that she was bad news, to avoid her. well, they hooked up that night anyways, and started dating. as a result, they were both blowing me and our other friends off constantly until i finally told them how i felt and they basically ex-communicated me, costing me quite a few mutual friends in the long run. they ended up getting married after she cheated on him and faked a pregnancy to get him back, but now they're separated, so all is right in the universe. Tristan and i are still good friends now my best friend is dating another friend. no major problems yet, except that she can be a royal pain in the ass sometimes. my friend didn't fake a pregnancy, but she told her boyfriend that it was his, and it wasn't it was another friend of ours. she wound up having a miscarriage though so that would have been fucked if the kid thought his/her dad was not who she originally thought Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest drahtuos Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 And they keep asking me about each other. And it creeps me out. i'll do you one better. my best girl friend in high school. told me everything. she had an eating disorder and was hooked on painkillers and etc. i was one of 2 people that knew. she was the second. my best guy friend in high school. told me EVERYTHING. he called me ten minutes after he lost his virginity. i taught him how to play basketball (we'd been friends/neighbors since i was 7 and he was 5). i hooked him up with booking shows/making merch/etc. for his band since i'm on radio stations. anyway, they didn't know each other. they randomly met through another mutual friend. and since they were each my best friend, they had obviously heard me talk about the other one, and knew how close i was to them. obviously, though, i couldn't tell the other one the secrets i knew about them. but they knew i knew shit. and they would both tell me everything they did. and i would have to act surprised (like i was hearing it for the first time) when the second person would tell me. it sucked. things got REALLY shitty though when they started hitting the skids. she was in love with him, like hardcore in love. first true love type of shit. and he wasn't in love with her anymore. he thought he was at first, but he realized he wasn't. and i knew it because he told me. and she knew something was wrong, and asked me all the time what was up. but i couldn't tell her, cause that's not my place. long story short, shit hits the fan, i speak to neither of them really anymore. sucks. fuck that shit, that sucks dan. it's not like it was your fault they didn't know how to communicate and you were just trying to not betray their trust. horrible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whateverrrr Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 I have a small group of best friends, and four of us just moved to Chicago this past summer. &now two out of the four of us started fucking out of loneliness. But now, she doesn't want to do him, but he still thinks she will. and it's just really fucking annoying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dante3000 Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 I was best friends with my mom and dad before they met and started fucking... On a more serious note, film that shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tanukichu Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 I hate being thrown in the middle of shit like that. It's happened so many times. And both people always come running to me to mediate shit. It's like I don't mind them coming to me since I'm their friend for the most part...like for venting and support but it seems like both of them either want me to magically fix everything or completely stop talking to the other person. I have too many of my own fucking problems to deal with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heavyheavylowlow Posted April 20, 2009 Author Share Posted April 20, 2009 I have film of what the 2 of them did in my room, I haven't watched it (nor do I really want to). I'm saving it for some sweet sweet blackmailing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casey Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 I have a small group of best friends, and four of us just moved to Chicago this past summer. &now two out of the four of us started fucking out of loneliness. But now, she doesn't want to do him, but he still thinks she will. and it's just really fucking annoying. and THAT'S why friends don't bone out of loneliness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whateverrrr Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 ahahahaha you win. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snaggle Von Swift Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 i've been in the situation twice, both times conveniently got busy with work or something, so i didn't have to be right there in it. both situations ended badly for the friends/couples, so i kinda hung low until it blew over and resurfaced. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcm1610 Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 I've hooked up with almost all of my closer girl friends, but that's because I'm a scumbag. Two of them are even gay. It's only backfired twice, but I've fixed one of those situations. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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