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true...but are you married with three kids?

i am!

exactly that infact, and i'm horrible with money.

my wife is the responsible one, who works her ass off and supports all of us.

i'm the fuck up who rarely has a job, and when i do i blow most of the money on records and video games.

she understands though, and i make up for it by being a pretty great dad/husband in return.

i'm just one of those lucky guys who is loved for who he is i guess.

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so i mean im the sole provider, and my family is taken care of, we dont scrape by, so am I wrong to spend 100-200 a week on records? It FEELS wrong, but also oh so right...

i thought about filling my paypal balance with a set amount and just using that but of course i woudl bypass that by just going to the record store

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true...but are you married with three kids?

Nope. Until then, there's plenty of time for me to carry on with my reckless streak.

And even if I were:

true...but are you married with three kids?

i am!

exactly that infact, and i'm horrible with money.

my wife is the responsible one, who works her ass off and supports all of us.

i'm the fuck up who rarely has a job, and when i do i blow most of the money on records and video games.

she understands though, and i make up for it by being a pretty great dad/husband in return.

i'm just one of those lucky guys who is loved for who he is i guess.

I could only aspire to be like you.

Save for being considered a fuck up.

Except that's probably what I'll end up being anyways.

So maybe including being a fuck up.

Hooray!

:)

But you have a good taste in music.

That's not fucked up.

Fuck yeah.

Fuckfuckfuck.

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so i mean im the sole provider, and my family is taken care of, we dont scrape by, so am I wrong to spend 100-200 a week on records? It FEELS wrong, but also oh so right...

i thought about filling my paypal balance with a set amount and just using that but of course i woudl bypass that by just going to the record store

I assume being a family person, raising kids and all, you're better off than I am, but DANG... that makes me feel a little better about my expenditure.

Do you ever turn your stuff around to offset your spending? I know I have to do that more than I'd like to, both for financial reasons, and because I don't have the spacial capacity yet to keep expanding. But if it helps my irresponsible ass, I'm sure a regular cleansing of your collection will help out for you as well.

Or you could do the whole, buy a collection, keep what you want, move the rest, thing. Unless you're against that sort of thing.

Or you could become a drug kingpin!

OR A HITMAN!

Or you could get your wife to pay you to babysit! You've already got the kids! It's like you're halfway there!

Albeit your allowance idea is probably the best yet.

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i should probably get rid of about 10-20% of my records, but since I dont have to, I havent felt the need. Im actually starting to get into rarer stuff, so that limits it a little bit, I used to buy 4-5 new releases every tuesday - not doing that any more.

This is a problem I know is coming up. With every cleansing comes a wave a new stuff, and with every wave comes a few that I just refuse to let go of. I can't keep perpetuating the cycle like that with the limited space allotted for my records. I need to get some serious shelving.

But if you know you've got stuff to pass on, I say do it. Might as well enjoy that cycle for while you can right?

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I enjoy two things: gambling and records. It's tough to combine them, so one hobby has to suffer. Since there's little reward with losing money (I think I'm 60/40 when I visit the casino), I just give in to records.

But there's nothing more terrifying than knowing bills are due and having to scrape money together. Most of the time I do well, but I'm not saving anything, just getting by. That is almost as irresponsible.

The best thing is to get on a budget and stick to it.

This is my New Year's resolution.

But I love to look...therein lies the problem. I cannot stop looking. I search eBay. Go to the record stores. Serach Craig's List. AHH. I can't stop.

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I have a bank account specifically for myself with a certain bit of cash automatically added there each paycheck. It essentially functions solely as a beer and record account. When it is empty, I don't buy anything.
This is the way to do it. It's easiest if you're on salary instead of hourly and can better anticipate your income.
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I get really cynical and cheap, especially after making a big purchase (e.g., the dragon tattoo deluxe edition, kepi ghoulie personalized hand-painted covers, etc.). I haven't bought any records in ~3 weeks, even though I want new things to listen to over my winter break

that said, I'm typically quite cynical (I'm not even sure it's worth posting this comment) and cheap (my diet this semester consisted primarily of pasta, popcorn, pretzels, and grapes, though this is probably the result of my cynicism...), so I'm not sure if that counts.

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How I stay financially afloat is rationality. By judging my records (hobby) compared to allotted money for bills/food/utilities/gas and etc. I found it helps to have several checking accounts (2) so you can manage money in a rational way, impulse buying does happen;but you know what to expect when it's on paper.

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