Emo Revival Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 Also I tots had that van steph. And I want that ninja turtle tie so I can be the ultimate lesbian I'll see if I can find it once my wife (droppppp) and I have unpacked (new house drop?) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobodybrokeurheart Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 Also I tots had that van steph. And I want that ninja turtle tie so I can be the ultimate lesbian i would have a cute overload if you got that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobodybrokeurheart Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 I feel like it just depends on how important sex is to you as a couple. I remember someone posted in man advice that they had sex 2 times a week ‘if they were lucky’. and I was shocked. I thought everyone wanted to have as much as they could get. I am learning more and more I am so wrong. my roommate used to be in a long distance relationship, and everytime he’d visit, I’d wonder how they weren’t immediatly getting naked after not seeing each other for 2 weeks. but the more people I talk to the more I feel like I’m in the minority with how often I’m in the mood (which is always). thank you! finally another chick who is always down. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emo Revival Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 i would have a cute overload if you got that. Man fuck that store bought shit, my mom made it by hand Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deafening Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 I just had a coworker come to my desk and realized a lot of things could go through his head if he noticed my "vaginyl collective" browser tab. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 I just had a coworker come to my desk and realized a lot of things could go through his head if he noticed my "vaginyl collective" browser tab. oh my gosh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emo Revival Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 I just had a coworker come to my desk and realized a lot of things could go through his head if he noticed my "vaginyl collective" browser tab. Yeah I'm waiting for the inevitable moment when our IT dude checks the activity today and notices this title in there. Should be a fun convo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjb2k1 Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 Also I tots had that van steph. And I want that ninja turtle tie so I can be the ultimate lesbian that tie is a thing of beauty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laralaurent Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 First, hi ladies! Second, sometimes I feel like I am the antiwoman? I'm pretty upfront with my feelings so as not to confuse where I'm coming from and I'm pretty laxed about relationships where I'm more than comfortable to not put a label on it and just go with the flow until one of us doesn't really want to be in it anymore. And if I have sex too soon, I have a tendency to lose all romantic feelings and I'll want to move on. Unless I really really like you. And then I'm just a smitten kitten for long time. The only guy I've ever truly loved, it took him getting married for me to be ready to move on. He might be my "the one that got away" even though there were things that bothered me in that relationship. C'est la vie! CaliforniaNoise 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 First, hi ladies! Second, sometimes I feel like I am the antiwoman? I'm pretty upfront with my feelings so as not to confuse where I'm coming from and I'm pretty laxed about relationships where I'm more than comfortable to not put a label on it and just go with the flow until one of us doesn't really want to be in it anymore. And if I have sex too soon, I have a tendency to lose all romantic feelings and I'll want to move on. Unless I really really like you. And then I'm just a smitten kitten for long time. The only guy I've ever truly loved, it took him getting married for me to be ready to move on. He might be my "the one that got away" even though there were things that bothered me in that relationship. C'est la vie! I'm very similar to you minus the sex aspect. When it comes to feelings/emotional attachment, I generally react in a stereotypical dude manner. I get bored of people very very quickly. I'm even with you on the 'one that got away' part of things. He didn't get married but it did take a lot of being shaken by those around me and some harsh words to snap me out of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 I just realized that I'm sitting here on my macbook in an oversized shirt, black leggings, and a knock off northface. I'm a pair of uggs and a frappucino away from being a stereotypical teenager. Please send help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 Haha. I wish I were that comfortable. =[ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maneatingcow Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 Logan, thanks for explaining your whole asexual thing. I've wanted to ask when you brought it up in the past but always thought it was a little to personal of a topic to ask about. (You may want to just not read the next paragraph as there is sex involved) I've never had the typical dudely sex drive, from a young age I've always said I wasn't going to have sex till I was mad about a lady. The older I got the more I've regretted it, but I honestly just couldn't imagine having sex with someone without have strong feelings for them. A couple years back I was dating a girl who I was friends with in high school. Her sex drive was crazy so I was able to fend her off for a while but after a while of her pressuring me I gave in and we started to try and have sex. Ended in fantastic failure with her kid walking in or crying every time. To be honest I was always a little bit relieved as I definitely wasn't ready / into having sex with her at the time. She was pressuring me, plus it's actually tough being a sexless dude. Being on the hunt for pussy seems to be such a dominant aspect of being a man that I always seem to feel as a partial man because I've always been ok taking care of my own needs. So if may not be asexual, but I might be closer to the Romantic asexual. Or I guess lazy asexual might be more apt description. I'd rather just take care of myself than try and force intimate sexual relations with someone I'm not close to. That said I do miss some of the more tame aspects of intimacy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 I've never had the typical dudely sex drive, from a young age I've always said I wasn't going to have sex till I was mad about a lady. The older I got the more I've regretted it, but I honestly just couldn't imagine having sex with someone without have strong feelings for them. A couple years back I was dating a girl who I was friends with in high school. Her sex drive was crazy so I was able to fend her off for a while but after a while of her pressuring me I gave in and we started to try and have sex. Ended in fantastic failure with her kid walking in or crying every time. To be honest I was always a little bit relieved as I definitely wasn't ready / into having sex with her at the time. She was pressuring me, plus it's actually tough being a sexless dude. Being on the hunt for pussy seems to be such a dominant aspect of being a man that I always seem to feel as a partial man because I've always been ok taking care of my own needs. So if may not be asexual, but I might be closer to the Romantic asexual. Or I guess lazy asexual might be more apt description. I'd rather just take care of myself than try and force intimate sexual relations with someone I'm not close to. That said I do miss some of the more tame aspects of intimacy. I can appreciate that logic. It seems like you just need to be with someone who enjoys the same level of a sexual relationship as you. Someone said it before, but there are all sorts of ladies who like the more romantic intimacy rather than the aggressive intimacy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 You're welcome! I'm always open to talk about it, I really don't mind. Also, really, I don't mind reading about sex or stuff like that. It's when people consistently go into weird detail with me about it, my roommate was really bad about this. I have another friend that occasionally slips. But if you're just casually talking about stuff, it's fine. If that makes sense. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 Also, what you described sounds a lot more like being Demisexual, which is grouped under asexual Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 i would have a cute overload if you got that. I just died!! I need that. And mark I wouldn't want to take away your awesome tie from childhood Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-tess. Posted February 4, 2014 Author Share Posted February 4, 2014 Also, congrats on the big girl job, Tess! It's going to be a big change, but a good change for sure! Thanks! I'm excited. But terrified. The few things keeping me sane: 1. My couple of dear friends who have been nothing but supportive. 2. The prospect of having money to buy vinyl. 3. This job is going to allow me the freedom to travel anywhere I want. When I think of those things... Everything else will work out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 What are you going to be doing? Was this asked already? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-tess. Posted February 4, 2014 Author Share Posted February 4, 2014 I just had a coworker come to my desk and realized a lot of things could go through his head if he noticed my "vaginyl collective" browser tab. Haha! Oh man. Let me know if we need to change it to something more.... Work friendly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-tess. Posted February 4, 2014 Author Share Posted February 4, 2014 What are you going to be doing? Was this asked already? I am going to be a flight attendant! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 I am going to be a flight attendant! Stoppppppppp no way. That's awesome! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobodybrokeurheart Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 I just died!! I need that. And mark I wouldn't want to take away your awesome tie from childhood i seen it at hot topic... or spencers... i can't remember. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 I am going to be a flight attendant! Oh my goooosh! What airline?! I'm very excited and jealous for/at you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skadaddy Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 i seen it at hot topic... or spencers... i can't remember. Hot Topic: http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/Teenage+Mutant+Ninja+Turtles+Bow+Tie-613647.jsp (OUT OF STOCK) Spencer's: http://www.spencersonline.com/product/Ci-Tmnt-Bow-Tie/ (UNAVAILABLE) But Etsy's got you covered: http://www.etsy.com/search?q=Ninja+Turtles+bow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.