radiatorhums Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 I liked it. It's technically a Christmas movie, so you could watch it next month and be festive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 My friend told me to watch that last night! I plan on checking it out after the cowboys game might be better off just starting it now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Can we just get back to talking about sexxx...it is very important to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deafening Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Sorry to get this thread off topic, boys. Ass n titties. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 goddammit. deafening posts ludicrous online dating messages, and somehow that's my brain's cue to dust off my okcupid account. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Ass n titties. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zacaroo21 Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Yeah. In Bruges rules so hard. My man advice to everyone is to watch it. If you like In Bruges, which everyone should, watch Seven Psychopaths. Exact same humor AND WITH FUCKING CHRISTOPHER WALKEN! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 that flick was dope Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deafening Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 I wonder if girls send just as ridiculous first messages too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parkinglot Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 how am i supposed to break up with my girlfriend for the second time (broke up with her in march, got back together in july) when shes never done anything wrong to me and always treated me extremely nice and always been there for me, because i feel absolutely nothing in the relationship anymore, but i feel like a total ass hole for possibly breaking up with her again. you know? She's an awesome person but i just feel like there is more out there. we started dating in feb 2012, so its almost been 2 years. she is also the only girlfriend i've ever had so it sucks because i don't know if i'm just incapable of feeling anything or if theres someone out there who i will feel so much more from, if you know what i mean. when we first started dating i would always be excited to hangout and see her, and now not at all. is this normal? i don't get excited to see her, i don't look forward to hanging out, we're both in separate universities so i never see her, and it doesn't bug me that i don't see her, while she is clearly really, really missing me. after we broke up for the first time i started getting lonely, because i'm a shy person and didn't want to go through the effort of meeting new girls, so we got back together. my worst fear is breaking up with her again, going a few months alone, and getting really depressed about shit, and wanting to get back together again. sorry, this probably makes little sense, but i don't really have anyone else i can say this to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 say it to her. explain it to her pretty much exactly as you just did. you're not fulfilled the way someone needs to be in a serious relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
circuit bored records Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 say it to her. explain it to her pretty much exactly as you just did. you're not fulfilled the way someone needs to be in a serious relationship. Easier said than done though man! It's easy to be cold and calculating when you're typing shit out to internet strangers on an internet message board. When you're face to face with someone you care about (even if you don't have intense intimate feelings towards) and she's got tears welled up and feelings are going to be hurt it's a different story. Whatever you say, I would just really emphasize that it's nothing she did and that it's all on you, that you aren't fulfilled as Ry said and that you need some time to figure things out. Wish you the best of luck dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parkinglot Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Easier said than done though man! It's easy to be cold and calculating when you're typing shit out to internet strangers on an internet message board. When you're face to face with someone you care about (even if you don't have intense intimate feelings towards) and she's got tears welled up and feelings are going to be hurt it's a different story. Whatever you say, I would just really emphasize that it's nothing she did and that it's all on you, that you aren't fulfilled as Ry said and that you need some time to figure things out. Wish you the best of luck dude. Thanks man. You hit the nail on the head. It's hard to hurt someone who has never wronged you and always put you first just because i can't feel anything. Especially when she starts crying and you just want to hug her and tell her it's going to be okay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtcohenour Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Can we just get back to talking about sexxx...it is very important to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jase Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Easier said than done though man! It's easy to be cold and calculating when you're typing shit out to internet strangers on an internet message board. When you're face to face with someone you care about (even if you don't have intense intimate feelings towards) and she's got tears welled up and feelings are going to be hurt it's a different story. Whatever you say, I would just really emphasize that it's nothing she did and that it's all on you, that you aren't fulfilled as Ry said and that you need some time to figure things out. Wish you the best of luck dude. I'll also add to this. It's better done sooner rather than later. The more time, effort and feelings she has invested in the relationship. The harder it will be for you to break it off, and the more you'll feel like an absolute asshole. I'd suggest you start it off by saying you feel bad because she is putting more in than you are able to Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiatorhums Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 There is no reason to feel like an ass for breaking up with her. Just because she hasn't done anything wrong is no reason to keep a relationship alive. Not being happy with the relationship is reason enough and in the long run, you're probably doing both of you a favor. It's best to break things off now before not being excited to see her turns into dreading seeing her. Most likely, things will only get worse the longer you two stay together. I suggest you sit down with her and be honest and try to explain things the best you can. Be compassionate if she starts crying, but stick to your guns. The next few weeks or months might be a little tough, but it'll be for the best. Find shit to keep you busy and you'll get through it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parkinglot Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Should it also be mentioned that we work at the same place. (part time job) That's what made it so hard last time we broke up. Had to see her once a week and work with her. But anyways, I'm heading over to her house to talk right now. Also thanks to everyone who has responded. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtcohenour Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parkinglot Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Just ended it. It is so fucking hard to do that to somebody who cares about you so much. I can't even imagine if I was on her end. I would be locked up in my room for days. Fuck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deafening Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 She will cry. She will wonder what she did wrong, regardless if you told her she did absolutely nothing wrong. She'll probably listen to a bunch of sad songs. She'll cry some more, and then she will move on. The difference between your unhappiness(es?) is that if you stayed there was no moving on for you, just more unhappiness. But now you both have a chance to move on. You did the best thing. If you feel like going back to her in the future, just remind yourself that twice you tried, and twice it didn't work out. enjoytheride and knifeparty 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtcohenour Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 Solid advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 She will cry. She will wonder what she did wrong, regardless if you told her she did absolutely nothing wrong. She'll probably listen to a bunch of sad songs. She'll cry some more, and then she will move on. The difference between your unhappiness(es?) is that if you stayed there was no moving on for you, just more unhappiness. But now you both have a chance to move on. You did the best thing. If you feel like going back to her in the future, just remind yourself that twice you tried, and twice it didn't work out. this is what’s up. i think once you come to the realization that something is over, you can never forget that. You might get lonely and want to go back to her, and you might get jealous when she starts seeing someone new. I guess you have to remember why you did it in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suchashorttime Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 YO. it's way harder than to be alone than codependent for the sake of not being lonely. that being said, when you challenge yourself to do something that is difficult, the outcomes are far greater. remember that this was better for both of you. it takes a man to be honest with his feelings, and a real man to be convicted enough to stick to a decision he makes. on to bigger and better things, champ. grow a fuckin' beard, pick up a new hobby, buy your family cool holiday gifts with the cash you would have spent on the chick. the world is your goddamn oyster. sjb2k1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjb2k1 Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 so yeah my love of sleeping is becoming an issue in my relationship. and by becoming i mean "already is" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 so yeah my love of sleeping is becoming an issue in my relationship. and by becoming i mean "already is" how so? I feel like this could end up being a problem for me aswell Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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