-tess. Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 I guess I don't want to be friends with guys who only want to get their dick wet anyways. Oh well right? Good lord... I NEED FRIENDS Word. I feel you. Making friends is difficult. If you figure it out let me know and if I figure it out I'll let you know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Youinreverse Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 Domo arigato, Jotoroboto tarzioo_, JoToRoBo and Sugar Shane 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 I guess it could be worse. I'm just missing the connection, all my best friends are in different states now and I feel so far away from them even when we talk on the phone. Queen Bey said it best: " I love my husband, but it is nothing like a conversation with a woman that understands you. I grow so much from those conversations." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
codeine Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 Word. I feel you. Making friends is difficult. If you figure it out let me know and if I figure it out I'll let you know. Sounds like most of us vinyl collectors are socially inept. But if you have to be a lame-wad try-hard normie, then I don't want friends! *crosses arms and huffs audibly* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-tess. Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 It's weird. I'm a flight attendant. I have no problem making conversation with people I don't know but when it comes to being like.... Can we hang out sometime? It just doesn't feel right and I get all shy. Especially when I'm trying to make girl friends. I don't want them to think I'm hitting on them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+hecollec+or Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 Sounds like most of us vinyl collectors are socially inept. Me in a nutshell. Or this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 It's weird. I'm a flight attendant. I have no problem making conversation with people I don't know but when it comes to being like.... Can we hang out sometime? It just doesn't feel right and I get all shy. Especially when I'm trying to make girl friends. I don't want them to think I'm hitting on them. I'm the same way. But my shyness about asking/making girl friends is because of my anxiety about not being liked or saying the wrong thing or being too boring, etc. It really debilitates me socially. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiatorhums Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 It's weird. I'm a flight attendant. I have no problem making conversation with people I don't know but when it comes to being like.... Can we hang out sometime? It just doesn't feel right and I get all shy. Especially when I'm trying to make girl friends. I don't want them to think I'm hitting on them. It took me quite a while to build up a group of friends after I moved. I think it's just harder when you get older. Fortunately, my current group of friends are REALLY social, so I meet plenty of people through them. They do all the leg work Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+hecollec+or Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 Making friends in high school was easy. As I got older it became more difficult. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laralaurent Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 I guess it could be worse. I'm just missing the connection, all my best friends are in different states now and I feel so far away from them even when we talk on the phone. Queen Bey said it best: " I love my husband, but it is nothing like a conversation with a woman that understands you. I grow so much from those conversations." Girl, I've been in the same boat. All my best friends live in different states and finding my place here hasn't been the easiest transition. I think it takes a couple years to really find a nice group, if you're brand new. Luckily I had a friend here and most of my best girlfriends have come to visit. Moving definitely had its ups and downs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 It's weird. I'm a flight attendant. I have no problem making conversation with people I don't know but when it comes to being like.... Can we hang out sometime? It just doesn't feel right and I get all shy. Especially when I'm trying to make girl friends. I don't want them to think I'm hitting on them. Same. I don't know how to take a casual friend and make her a hangout friend. It's like asking a dude out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 I'm in a similar situation, except all my friends keep moving away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tarzioo_ Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 I do get along great with them, they all act like my mother honestly, old women have always taken to me haha But they don't want to go shopping... or to record swaps or punk shows. Good point lol. I don't have anyone who will do that stuff with me. It bums me out but I'll go alone Why can't we live close!?!?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FangsAnalSatan Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 I received a record today. I requested in the comments "Can you ship the record outside of the jacket?". I got it today, with the record outside of the sleeve; inside the jacket. wat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danionly Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 No, an engineering firm. Hey, me too! Also, I'm right there with you girls on making friends. After college all my friends moved and I stayed. Whenever I go to concerts I always think about just talking to some girls there, but I'm almost positive that that would just be really weird and they'd think I'm hitting them or something. You can't just start a conversation at a show and say 'hey can I get your number? Let's hang out some time!' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 I received a record today. I requested in the comments "Can you ship the record outside of the jacket?". I got it today, with the record outside of the sleeve; inside the jacket. wat That reminds me of when I preordered a record from a big box store and I sent them an email to ask how they ship - I wanted to make sure it didn't ship in a bubble mailer. The first time they replied with this: "Your order will be shipped once this release date has been reached. As you have chosen ‘standard’ shipping as opposed to ‘courier’ shipping, the delivery isn’t tracked." Then I replied and said no, I know the shipping method I chose when I ordered, but what will the record be physically shipped in? I want to make sure it arrives in tact. They replied with: "The records are sent out in a cardboard vinyl sleeve." ....What the fuck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 Hey, me too! Also, I'm right there with you girls on making friends. After college all my friends moved and I stayed. Whenever I go to concerts I always think about just talking to some girls there, but I'm almost positive that that would just be really weird and they'd think I'm hitting them or something. You can't just start a conversation at a show and say 'hey can I get your number? Let's hang out some time!' No wayyyyy what is your position there/what do you do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Family Friendly Rap God Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 Yes... and I have to set an example as well. Haha. Same here. I try to leave my phone on my desk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 I bought a camo jacket. I'm in Florida. You can take the girl out of country but you can't take the country out of the girl apparently. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danionly Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 No wayyyyy what is your position there/what do you do? Office manager. Pretty much anything not engineering! What kind of engineering does your company do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soundofsilver Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 I think as we get older, it is harder to make/keep friends, but that's just my opinion. I live in a major college town, am 10-15 yrs older than the majority of the students naturally, and I knew it would be hard when I first moved here 6 yrs ago. My main focus is anything having to deal w music, and the one person I knew when I came here was/is still stuck on going out all the time, drinking. I can't keep up w the guy. (I can, but choose not to) Luckily, I met up w a lot of musicians here early, and a photog that hits up a lot of shows/festivals, and they keep me sane. My photog buddy is such an introvert, and w me being fairly outgoing, we pair nicely. All the friends I had growing up have married, and have kids, and being an hour away makes it hard. I'm not a FB guy, I just use it for bands/labels/tours, so I was forced fairly early on to just go and meet people here. Although, this town being a college town, we get a lot of music acts/bands. Made the transition easier, for sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Family Friendly Rap God Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 My job just installed a new payroll software company wide and it has officially screwed up everyone's paycheck. Sigh... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiatorhums Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 My job just installed a new payroll software company wide and it has officially screwed up everyone's paycheck. Sigh... I had a job that would get them sent from corporate and sometimes they'd arrive late (usually due to holidays). The company would just end up paying us out in cash, it was annoying (but better than not getting paid at all). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parkinglot Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 It makes me laugh when people comment on my Instagram photos asking for my username. Someone just posted "I'll give you my account for your username" on my last picture. Hahahahahaha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiatorhums Posted August 26, 2014 Share Posted August 26, 2014 It makes me laugh when people comment on my Instagram photos asking for my username. Someone just posted "I'll give you my account for your username" on my last picture. Hahahahahaha. Sell it to the highest bidder! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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