Team Avatar Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 i done messed up and messed with an ex and now she cutting off so she can live life and i'm sad like usual. i feel like i let madie down cause shes so anti ex! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bladew1ll1s1sdead Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 i done messed up and messed with an ex and now she cutting off so she can live life and i'm sad like usual. i feel like i let madie down cause shes so anti ex!Been there. We all fuck up my dude. It's all good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 I'm anti ex because I repeatedly went back to mine for years and it was an awful cycle of fuckery ! I ain't mad though Jacob do you boo boo, just learn from it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Family Friendly Rap God Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 I've been on both sides of the ex spectrum. One stole my car to go pick up her BD from jail, and the other has worked out great. Shit, I'm paying off her wedding ring. So there's that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 I deleted tinder and made a new OKC profile, and apparently I did a really good job, because now too many women want to hang out. And I'm also doing that thing where I'm getting way ahead of myself with one of them. I'm playing it very direct yet cautiously with her. Got right to the point after a couple of messages saying "hey, you seem all around awesome, and I'd like to take you out" After we both decided we can't do this week, she gave me her number so that we can plan for next. And I haven't used it yet. Not until later this week, maybe even the weekend. I just don't want to risk fucking it up before then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Out of Breath Records Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 Shit, I'm paying off her wedding ring. So there's that. C'mon Will. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 Actually, sorry, the correct answer is "Jesus Christ, Marie, they're minerals." I GET THIS NOW Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 I GET THIS NOW One of my all time favorite lines in any TV show. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Team Avatar Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 ughhhhhh i just wanna complain to the world but every time i type something i feel dumb and delete it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
controlthebleeding Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 ughhhhhh i just wanna complain to the world but every time i type something i feel dumb and delete it that's how i feel usually. sometimes i just want to get something off my chest and get some kind of productive feeback, but usually i get a snide answer from my friends so now i just keep it to myself. my life questions are full of monosyllabic answers.. so i just avoid it altogether. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-tess. Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I feel you... Like why are people on dating sites / apps so damn flakey? Probably a dumb question. They obviously found someone better to date tonight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Team Avatar Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I actually wonder about that too. Why do you make plans with me just to bail? I've been stood up so many times from tinder shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-tess. Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 Guys do it too. It's a bunch of shit. If I cancel, it is because I have a legitimate reason. Bitches. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 i think it's just because it's so easy to cancel on someone. it comes with no repercussions whatsoever. i wouldn't be surprised if i've been cancelled on because a girl just needed to do laundry or something. time sucks. there's not enough of it, and i suppose that life does get in the way of meeting strangers and whatnot. worse than being flaked on, i think, is actually meeting someone, and getting no response when you text them the next day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-tess. Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 true. I get it. I have a tight schedule too. But when I save an evening for someone, and make it work... I just don't get how others can't do the same. And then I have a wasted evening because someone cancelled. I think I am over this online dating shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
codeine Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 Yeah, I don't think it's just tinder / dating sites / apps. I think it's just how a lot of people are these days due to always being attached to gadgets like cell phones and tablets.For example back in the landline days you would call your friends to meet up, and you couldn't not show up, cause then you'd be leaving them hanging. Which would have been a total dick move. But nowadays people will wait til the last minute, or even til way after an event and then go 'oh yeah something came up.' Well guess what, it was a dick move back then and it still is now!I dunno, I find most people flake the majority of the time nowadays. Also that thing about 'no response is the new "no."' Because people are afraid to say 'no' and hurt peoples feelings or look bad. It doesn't save anyone any trouble. It just complicates things when you could just simplify and say 'no' and to all the people who do this: I am on to you! You are not fooling anyone! It's super-transparent, and you haven't saved yourself from looking like a jerk, you look like even more of a jerk now! Hahahahaha! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
controlthebleeding Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 true. I get it. I have a tight schedule too. But when I save an evening for someone, and make it work... I just don't get how others can't do the same. And then I have a wasted evening because someone cancelled. I think I am over this online dating shit. i rarely get responses.. i gave up on those dating sites about a year ago.. i have learned (due to flakey friends) not to make any advanced plans.. if someone wants to hang out, they call within hours. i never tell anyone sure anymore because past experiences left me with missed opportunities due to flakey friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
codeine Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 i rarely get responses.. i gave up on those dating sites about a year ago.. i have learned (due to flakey friends) not to make any advanced plans.. if someone wants to hang out, they call within hours. i never tell anyone sure anymore because past experiences left me with missed opportunities due to flakey friends. This is the exact stuff I was talking about. It's not just your friends, most people seem to be like this now. It's become an acceptable practice. I still hold out hope that some people are not, because I know I'm not, so there must be others as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I panic about making plans because I'm worried a better opportunity will present itself. /bad person alert. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-tess. Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I panic about making plans because I'm worried a better opportunity will present itself. /bad person alert. No offense Lorgan, but this is the problem exactly. We are a generation so built on immediate gratification, and new new new that I think we become obsessed with finding the BEST of everything. From the best burrito, to the best way to spend the evening. It is really sad because I think often we miss the best option in search for something better. I think I am going to give up online dating. I am over it and how surface level it is. That is just not me. If that means I have to be the crazy person that starts conversations with people on the bus, then I am going to do it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Team Avatar Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I subconsciously do it too. I don't like making plans with anyone because of 'FOMO' on better plans. I've been trying so hard to be better at it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 If I don't have anything planned and someone asks me to do something, I say yes. I just never think people want to be around me so I jump at the opportunity lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Youinreverse Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 From the best burrito, to the best way to spend the evening. You just described the best way to spend the evening. -tess. and ExtraFox 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I panic about making plans because I'm worried a better opportunity will present itself. /bad person alert. I'm terribly confused about posting this now because looking at things I almost always make plans and very rarely cancel them? When I do cancel it's an anxiety induced thing and i generally downgrade plans or cancel all together. I do occasionally overbook myself though and that sucks. I'm confused with myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-tess. Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 If I don't have anything planned and someone asks me to do something, I say yes. I just never think people want to be around me so I jump at the opportunity lol. Me exactly. LOL You just described the best way to spend the evening. A++++ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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