Team Avatar Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 pretty sure i've somehow fucked it up since, anyways, cause compared to when we first met she's been a brick wall. sigh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bladewillisisdead Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 pretty sure i've somehow fucked it up since, anyways, cause compared to when we first met she's been a brick wall. sigh Sometimes people click and sometimes they don't. It's always different at first because you're both new to each other so there's a little more "trying" for lack of a better word. Not sure how you met her, but I know OKC has that % match thing. Its definitely not perfect but I've seen it work. My girlfriend and I were a 98% match and I've never had any relationship work so well so fast. We were both like "But I thought that number was bullshit..." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bladewillisisdead Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 I guess what I'm saying is a relationship shouldn't be "work" at the start. Long term, yeah. But wait for someone you click with. ̮ ɤ ̮ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cambionic Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 Has anyone "superliked" someone on Tinder? I usually save that for women I want to marry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bladewillisisdead Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 Has anyone "superliked" someone on Tinder? I usually save that for women I want to marry. The fuck even is that? I thought it was just "like" or "reject" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cambionic Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 The fuck even is that? I thought it was just "like" or "reject" They instituted a new "superlike" feature that you get to use once a day. It will notify the person that you liked them before they have the chance to like/dislike you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Butcha Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 Has anyone "superliked" someone on Tinder? I usually save that for women I want to marry. 1 a day baby! I usually save them for the occasional time I see the words "vinyl collector" in a profile. Actually happened just about an hour ago! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cambionic Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 1 a day baby! I usually save them for the occasional time I see the words "vinyl collector" in a profile. Actually happened just about an hour ago! Not many collectors in my area, though I have made a few friends that I've met in local record stores. It's a difficulty finding a compatible girl that also have a fervent passion for vinyl. I'm just looking for one that won't key my car after the second date. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bladewillisisdead Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 Not many collectors in my area, though I have made a few friends that I've met in local record stores. It's a difficulty finding a compatible girl that also have a fervent passion for vinyl. I'm just looking for one that won't key my car after the second date. Did this actually happen to you? More than once? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cambionic Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 Did this actually happen to you? More than once? No, but I do have a problem with attracting women that are less than mentally stable. The sex is good, but the ensuing repercussions sometimes make it not worth it. I need to learn to not ignore all these damn red flags. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shelby Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 I feel bad noping someone that super liked me, that feature is lame imo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bladewillisisdead Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 Look at mister popular with the ladies over here. cambionic and tarzioo_ 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WAXXX Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 I feel bad noping someone that super liked me i enjoy it. makes me feel better about myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abovetheearth Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 The fuck even is that? I thought it was just "like" or "reject" there's really a "reject" button? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Team Avatar Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 I guess what I'm saying is a relationship shouldn't be "work" at the start. Long term, yeah. But wait for someone you click with. Yeah. I asked her whats up today and she said "nah" or whatever (thats the tldr version of what she said) but i think we had a high number match % despite the apparent differences in our life. I don't know but I have no idea how people do this shit I'm laying in my bed being all dramatic cause I built up so much happiness in my head. I need more bricks and more walls. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cambionic Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 I need more bricks and more walls. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Team Avatar Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 although we are still talking as friends and she told me how much she despises anime and I think that means I should stomach my loss and accept the fact that I won't be happy if I can't watch Miyazaki with my future love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cambionic Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 I've recently been in a similar situation, but I'm on the other side. I can't stand 90% of the media she enjoys (music, shows, movies, books, etc.), but I still can tolerate it. I just fucking hate having sex to Breaking Benjamin. --- I've been seriously contemplating letting my love life (and complementary co-dependency) go into a diapause until I can actually deal with everything. With all this shit on my plate, it's hard to juggle relationships. Just gotta let it come naturally. Now if I can make it more than a week without searching for some like a starving hound dog... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Team Avatar Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 i feel the same but i already downloaded tinder and okc cause i don't know how else to cope with sadness then finding a new source of it. I super liked someone and they liked me back, so i messaged them and they blocked me. talk about power. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beeonaleesh Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 i feel the same but i already downloaded tinder and okc cause i don't know how else to cope with sadness then finding a new source of it. I super liked someone and they liked me back, so i messaged them and they blocked me. talk about power. Don't you have any places to meet people in real life? Your a young attractive dude, why use the internet unless you just want to hook up? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bladewillisisdead Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 Do not listen to anyone ever when they try to shame you for internet dating for any reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beeonaleesh Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 Do not listen to anyone ever when they try to shame you for internet dating for any reason. Nope. Just nope dude. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dominic_ Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 No, but I do have a problem with attracting women that are less than mentally stable. The sex is good, but the ensuing repercussions sometimes make it not worth it. I need to learn to not ignore all these damn red flags. Yes. I have the high school version of this issue. Since I've started I have had to shoot down three and actively avoid (still, since beginning of last year) one. Help me pls. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzersonKillwell Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 Don't you have any places to meet people in real life? Your a young attractive dude, why use the internet unless you just want to hook up? This is helpful advice. Generally you shouldn't be using any and all options available to you at any given moment. I find it best to just choose one thing to do and if that doesn't work, just keep doing it longer. Beeonaleesh and seangj 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beeonaleesh Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 Loving the sarcasm. But really I didn't mean to "shame"anyone (if that's how your interpreting it). I can't help but see a pattern here with all the flakes he's encountering. I have nothing against internet dating, by all MEANS use everything you can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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