suchashorttime Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 You are looking for a girlfriend, not a wife. Give them all a chance. sage advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronniegwilliams Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 As cliche as this is going to sound I don't want to jump into a relationship just for the sake of it. Also the thing is nobody comes close to the original though I know I'll never find it I can't date anybody else, at least not while I think about somebody else 24/7 because it's not right for the girl I 'd currently date So I'm going to hold off, at least for now, Perhaps next year. does anyone else find the idea of someone jumping into a relationship that isn't old enough to drive semi-amusing? anybody? am i alone here? tap tap, is this thing on? Sorry Eric, I know you're probably a good kid, I just don't think you think prior to posting sometimes and I know you have the best of intentions, but c'mon man, just hold a girls hand, text her funny stories about shitty bands that my old ass doesn't know of, and get stoked about feeling some above the bra boob while you still can, jesus seangj 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Tea Papi Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Okay, now advice me on how to get over my fear of public rejection like I just to give her the H in public but she brushes her hand away and people notice. (ps. I'm shy to begin with) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Just say "Bitch, you without me is like Harold Melvin without the Bluenotes you'll never go platinum." ...actually, don't do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thebiglebowski Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 The first thing you need to do is get it into your skull that you are not special and a lot of us have gone through this before. You wouldn't get 1/10th as much shit if you would just listen. Watching movies and television does not prepare you for real world dating. 1) Who cares what people think. 2) If this the girl you want, tell her (maybe you have already done this) 3) If the answer is no, the answer is no. You need to work on someone new. She may see you with someone else and it will make her want to be with you again. This might be a legit "man advice" problem -- whether to take her back. If she sees you with another girl and doesn't care, it's over. Move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 i still can't get over public rejection. which is basically why i take to dating sites. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thebiglebowski Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Continually trying to "work on" a girl that isn't interested is the absolute worst move you can make and only hurts your chances. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Tea Papi Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Continually trying to "work on" a girl that isn't interested is the absolute worst move you can make and only hurts your chances. I'm not other than my tumblr blog and y'all everybody think's I'm over her. If she ever did come over though and we were in my bed listing to my Mayday Parade vinyl or what ever record she want's to listen to, I'm not going to lie I would just go for it and kiss her this time. Instead of jokingly asking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
controlthebleeding Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 i still can't get over public rejection. which is basically why i take to dating sites. i find public rejection humorous. i get rejected without a word. once at the local ralph's, i got rejected by a women standing in line merely by saying "hello" (i'm from tx, where we are polite and actually greet people regularly). the words out of her mouth were clear.."i'm sorry, but you're not my type"..and rolled her eyes in a askance view. i just kinda laughed and said "uh ok". the dude behind me looked at me as if he didn't know what the fuck was going on. other times it's just been full on rejection when i asked girls out. a few times that i wasn't even attracted to. i just wanted to be friends and have a movie partner or go get a beer. i got rejected in public to go to the movies with a "yeah, nah.. not gonna happen". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thebiglebowski Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 If you get a girl in your bed listening to records with you, you better try and kiss her. Don't build it up in your head, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Tea Papi Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 If you get a girl in your bed listening to records with you, you better try and kiss her. Don't build it up in your head, though. Last time we were cuddling with the warmth of her laptop and the fire place we drank tea a listened to music we we're the only two in the house this is my biggest regret ever there was 0 pressure I'm just a pussy. I can't listen to Not My Blood by mansions without getting a giant knot in my tummy. Shyness is nice, and Shyness can stop you From doing all the things in life You'd like to -The Smiths The Texas thing is very true though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abovetheearth Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Do you just close your eyes and hit random keys on the keyboard? zacaroo21 and ronniegwilliams 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Tea Papi Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Do you just close your eyes and hit random keys on the keyboard? I don't get it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zacaroo21 Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Do you just close your eyes and hit random keys on the keyboard? Who needs eyes...do kids still learn to type with those rubber sheets that cover the keyboard? Do kids still "learn" typing or is instilled at birth? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thebiglebowski Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Your first kiss (if it will be your first) is supposed to make you nervous. You just have to shut off your brain and tell your muscles to do it. No different than someone standing on a bridge about to bungee jump -- their brain is telling them "don't fucking do it" but they shut that part off and jump cause they know it's what they need to do. The point is...once you get the first one out of the way, every one after that is 10 times easier. That's why you need to just do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobodybrokeurheart Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 what the fuck happened in here? suchashorttime 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thebiglebowski Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 what the fuck happened in here? Trying to convince Eric to make a move. Cause, I don't know, he sounds like me in high school and I wish I could go back and do things differently. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Tea Papi Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 what the fuck happened in here? They're helping a nieve boy. Your first kiss (if it will be your first) is supposed to make you nervous. You just have to shut off your brain and tell your muscles to do it. No different than someone standing on a bridge about to bungee jump -- their brain is telling them "don't fucking do it" but they shut that part off and jump cause they know it's what they need to do. The point is...once you get the first one out of the way, every one after that is 10 times easier. That's why you need to just do it. Okay I'll do it but it's a matter of getting her over, she like always has plans you have to make reservations 2 weeks in advance and those are liquid and I've only hung out with her twice outside of school in the 2 years I've known her. So how to I get her to Ma maison, or get back in sa maison? (maison is french for house) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thebiglebowski Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 LOL. No 16 year old should have a datebook filled up for the next 2 weeks. It's not like you are trying to meet with your congressman. I don't know what to tell you about getting her over. If you already did that once, you should be able to do it again. Buy whatever record from her favorite band and invite her over to listen to it? Or just ask her to watch a movie with you. It doesn't have to be complicated. If she says "maybe in two weeks" then say something like "If you want to hang out with me then make a little time for it. I'm not your plan D if plan A, B, and C fall through". Say it in your own words. But girls will respect someone who isn't a pushover. Don't be mean, but not a pushover. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Eric just get her to your house and play your new very expensive house of balloons vinyl.... you wont even have to do anything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjb2k1 Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 those are awesome! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zacaroo21 Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Do all the ladies hum the Jurassic Park theme when they are removing your lady garments? GradedOnACurve and nobodybrokeurheart 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dashhax Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Jurassic Park is one of the best movies ever made. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 Do all the ladies hum the Jurassic Park theme when they are removing your lady garments? if only.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobodybrokeurheart Posted March 26, 2013 Share Posted March 26, 2013 THIS THREAD WENT BACK TO BEING AWESOME REAL QUICK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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