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I wish I was asexual. Life would be so much easier.

 

It would only be easier if everyone else was asexual.

 

 

I would very much not like to be asexual most days, or at least be aromantic on top of it.

Wanting a relationship but not being a sexual person reallllly makes things difficult and less than 2% of the human population identifies as asexual.

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It would only be easier if everyone else was asexual.

 

 

I would very much not like to be asexual most days, or at least be aromantic on top of it.

Wanting a relationship but not being a sexual person reallllly makes things difficult and less than 2% of the human population identifies as asexual.

I cannot even begin to comprehend this because I am sexual person, I guess. I get it. Life would be way simpler without sex. I've often vowed moments of my life to not worry about. But then, if I'm not worried about it, I want to kill myself because there's no sex in my life. 

Catch 222222222. 

Have you always been like that since maturation? I wonder if that could change as you age??

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It would only be easier if everyone else was asexual.

 

 

I would very much not like to be asexual most days, or at least be aromantic on top of it.

Wanting a relationship but not being a sexual person reallllly makes things difficult and less than 2% of the human population identifies as asexual.

 

Good point. I should have clarified. I wish I was asexual & aromantic.

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I cannot even begin to comprehend this because I am sexual person, I guess. I get it. Life would be way simpler without sex. I've often vowed moments of my life to not worry about. But then, if I'm not worried about it, I want to kill myself because there's no sex in my life. 

Catch 222222222. 

Have you always been like that since maturation? I wonder if that could change as you age??

 

 

 

Yup, 0 sex drive at 21. The idea of it used to make me really, really sick. Like...vomiting if a porn gif popped up while I was scrolling through Tumblr. I'm not as sensitive to that stuff anymore but still have no desire.

 

I'm really sensitive to touch too, so it takes a long time for me to warm up to people and be okay with anything other than hugs/highfives. There's a good chance that I could identify as demisexual but that's someone who only has a sex drive when they're "in love" with someone.

Since I've never been in love (nor have I done anything past holding hands) it's kinda hard to tell where I stand on the asexual spectrum.

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Yup, 0 sex drive at 21. The idea of it used to make me really, really sick. Like...vomiting if a porn gif popped up while I was scrolling through Tumblr. I'm not as sensitive to that stuff anymore but still have no desire.

I'm really sensitive to touch too, so it takes a long time for me to warm up to people and be okay with anything other than hugs/highfives. There's a good chance that I could identify as demisexual but that's someone who only has a sex drive when they're "in love" with someone.

Since I've never been in love (nor have I done anything past holding hands) it's kinda hard to tell where I stand on the asexual spectrum.

This is very cool/interesting to me. Especially with our hypersexualized media.

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  • 2 weeks later...

Currently, I am forcing myself into a major that I am not totally interested in (English with a concentration in language arts). I would much prefer English with a concentration in Creative Writing. There is another school in the area that has an amazing creative writing program, but I am a new father and I need to go part time, two days a week, which is something that my current school offers, but am not sure about the other school (calling tomorrow).

 

I am also getting deep into a new, very well paying job, that makes me happy and I think that I will be in the field for a very long time, so I currently feel like college is a bit of a waste of time right now. Either way though, if I'm going to go, I want to go for what I really want to, but the school seems so out of reach that I just don't think it can happen.

 

Its killing me.

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I'm currently working towards an English major but I have absolutely no idea what I want to do.  I just picked something that seemed half interesting to me so people would stop asking, and I could stop saying, "I don't know what I'm doing.  Yes, I know it's a waste of money.  No, I don't want to go to a trades school".

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im falling HARD over a lady i met on instagram. its been only a month of skype and texting. I think i'm pulling out the big guns and flying her to me in December.  I'm telling myself, "Man, this is some sleepless in seattle kind of shit". Am I fucking up or could this be fucking awesome?

 

Like, My friend Nick met a lady on Twitter, and she moved from Seattle to Pittsburgh to be with him after meeting in person only once, and goddammit, they're happy. Fuck, i'm almost 30 and am still alone. This might be the thing that I need to do. Regardless, I;m sending her a care package tomorrow and it has 2 rubber duckies, an 80's laser gun that goes "pew pew pew" a super sexy wearable, a shirt of mine that happens to be her favorite band, and a teddy bear so she has something to cuddle with at night.

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im falling HARD over a lady i met on instagram. its been only a month of skype and texting. I think i'm pulling out the big guns and flying her to me in December. I'm telling myself, "Man, this is some sleepless in seattle kind of shit". Am I fucking up or could this be fucking awesome?

Like, My friend Nick met a lady on Twitter, and she moved from Seattle to Pittsburgh to be with him after meeting in person only once, and goddammit, they're happy. Fuck, i'm almost 30 and am still alone. This might be the thing that I need to do. Regardless, I;m sending her a care package tomorrow and it has 2 rubber duckies, an 80's laser gun that goes "pew pew pew" a super sexy wearable, a shirt of mine that happens to be her favorite band, and a teddy bear so she has something to cuddle with at night.

You're a fuckin dweeb and I support it.
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im falling HARD over a lady i met on instagram. its been only a month of skype and texting. I think i'm pulling out the big guns and flying her to me in December. I'm telling myself, "Man, this is some sleepless in seattle kind of shit". Am I fucking up or could this be fucking awesome?

Like, My friend Nick met a lady on Twitter, and she moved from Seattle to Pittsburgh to be with him after meeting in person only once, and goddammit, they're happy. Fuck, i'm almost 30 and am still alone. This might be the thing that I need to do. Regardless, I;m sending her a care package tomorrow and it has 2 rubber duckies, an 80's laser gun that goes "pew pew pew" a super sexy wearable, a shirt of mine that happens to be her favorite band, and a teddy bear so she has something to cuddle with at night.

Do it. Here I am happy as a clam living in Ohio all because I moved to be with a man I met on this weird/awful/wonderful message board. It's worth it, you've got nothing to lose :)

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