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DecayToDeath reacted to RadDonut in P.O. NOW mewithoutYou Collector's Editions/Everything Else Thread
Bummed. Was hoping for a deluxe since I missed the last one.
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from prowl20 in PO: TWIABP - Illusory Walls (10/8/2021)
This album is actually fantastic, shocked to be saying that because I had pretty much given up on the band.
Was about to say that too, glad someone else did
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DecayToDeath reacted to prowl20 in PO: TWIABP - Illusory Walls (10/8/2021)
Let’s not use people’s dead names
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DecayToDeath reacted to IndigoHollow in Alexisonfire - Alexisonfire 15yr Press
Probably not a box set, but tomorrow all records will be restocked. All vinyl is black.
https://www.instagram.com/p/CUc7PehFdCF/
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from iwokeinrelief in (PO) LCD Soundsystem - The Long Goodbye repress
https://kesdecay.com/products/lcd-soundsystem-vinyl-raffle
Heya I'm raffling off a copy of this for Afghanistan refugee aid : )
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from timsimmons in (PO) LCD Soundsystem - The Long Goodbye repress
https://kesdecay.com/products/lcd-soundsystem-vinyl-raffle
Heya I'm raffling off a copy of this for Afghanistan refugee aid : )
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from AlexH. in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
Yeah this is the mentality I've got at the moment, not only has it been a long-standing pattern, but all the recent press with him is just him begging for pity without truly copping responsibility. Classic move on an abuser's part to be victimizing themselves in times like these. He's not sorry he did anything, he's sorry he got caught.
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from copelandkid in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
Yeah this is the mentality I've got at the moment, not only has it been a long-standing pattern, but all the recent press with him is just him begging for pity without truly copping responsibility. Classic move on an abuser's part to be victimizing themselves in times like these. He's not sorry he did anything, he's sorry he got caught.
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DecayToDeath reacted to timsimmons in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
First of all, don't do this. It normalizes behavior like his. Can't give him a pass just because no one is perfect. At the risk of being #notallmen, you can't apples to apples peoples faults, errors, cruelties or crimes.
Second, this is REALLY minimizing what he is/was accused of. But at the end of the day, its the power dynamics, emotional manipulation, creepy behavior, and flat out mental abuse that people are taking issue with. I HOPE people are pointing this out in their daily lives and not just on twitter or some messageboard. If we want a better society we have to hold people accountable and thats what people seem to be doing with Ryan.
this is bullshit, no one is dogging him when he's not in the news. He's the one writing letters to the daily Mail or agreeing to interviews with LA magazines. And when he pops up, he wants the credit for doing the time, but doesn't want to put in the work. There has been no sincere or thorough mea culpa from him. That article makes it look like he's made some strides, but then when you see his IG meltdowns, you have to question whats really real.
Do I hope he owns this, tries to make himself better, and be an advocate so he could come back? Absolutely. He's crazy talented. But if you are gonna treat people like shit (which has always been his pattern), do minimal leg work, want the credit and then whine that its others people fault thats keeping you down and not own your own shortcomings, well, you're gonna get called out every time you surface.
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from timsimmons in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
I talk mad shit about Bowie and Chris Brown, the whataboutism is kind of a misplaced straw man here
The joke writes itself
Nailed it. People who want to improve their character can do so, but the key word there is want. If you don't actually have intentions of changing your behavior, then you aren't "healing".
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from tape in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
I talk mad shit about Bowie and Chris Brown, the whataboutism is kind of a misplaced straw man here
The joke writes itself
Nailed it. People who want to improve their character can do so, but the key word there is want. If you don't actually have intentions of changing your behavior, then you aren't "healing".
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from OtherVagOption in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
I talk mad shit about Bowie and Chris Brown, the whataboutism is kind of a misplaced straw man here
The joke writes itself
Nailed it. People who want to improve their character can do so, but the key word there is want. If you don't actually have intentions of changing your behavior, then you aren't "healing".
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from Mars in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
Yeah this is the mentality I've got at the moment, not only has it been a long-standing pattern, but all the recent press with him is just him begging for pity without truly copping responsibility. Classic move on an abuser's part to be victimizing themselves in times like these. He's not sorry he did anything, he's sorry he got caught.
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from OtherVagOption in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
Yeah this is the mentality I've got at the moment, not only has it been a long-standing pattern, but all the recent press with him is just him begging for pity without truly copping responsibility. Classic move on an abuser's part to be victimizing themselves in times like these. He's not sorry he did anything, he's sorry he got caught.
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from ex lion tamer in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
Yeah this is the mentality I've got at the moment, not only has it been a long-standing pattern, but all the recent press with him is just him begging for pity without truly copping responsibility. Classic move on an abuser's part to be victimizing themselves in times like these. He's not sorry he did anything, he's sorry he got caught.
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from timsimmons in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
Yeah this is the mentality I've got at the moment, not only has it been a long-standing pattern, but all the recent press with him is just him begging for pity without truly copping responsibility. Classic move on an abuser's part to be victimizing themselves in times like these. He's not sorry he did anything, he's sorry he got caught.
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from kjkenney in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
Yeah this is the mentality I've got at the moment, not only has it been a long-standing pattern, but all the recent press with him is just him begging for pity without truly copping responsibility. Classic move on an abuser's part to be victimizing themselves in times like these. He's not sorry he did anything, he's sorry he got caught.
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from N8TRU in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
Yeah this is the mentality I've got at the moment, not only has it been a long-standing pattern, but all the recent press with him is just him begging for pity without truly copping responsibility. Classic move on an abuser's part to be victimizing themselves in times like these. He's not sorry he did anything, he's sorry he got caught.
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DecayToDeath reacted to tape in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
oh for sure man I feel soooOOOooOOoo sorry for them, being born 50 years too late to be able to openly hit on and/or fuck 15 year old girls like Elvis was able to get away with,
foh
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from Multiverse in I can’t even….
Peppa and Freddie have been beefing on Twitter
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from Plarocks in Ryam Adams - PAX AM Records
suffer you miserable waste of carbon
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from V3XED in Soon? The Mars Volta
Yea I got a $1200 table for like 50% off cuz they were discontinuing the model or something, plus a 2m bronze that was discounted like $150 because it didn't come in the box even tho it was unused. I'm usually too lazy to bother with vintage tables/carts as opposed to speakers and amps, but there's no way in hell I'm gonna pay even close to what new stuff is worth lol
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DecayToDeath got a reaction from Shelby in Soon? The Mars Volta
Yea I got a $1200 table for like 50% off cuz they were discontinuing the model or something, plus a 2m bronze that was discounted like $150 because it didn't come in the box even tho it was unused. I'm usually too lazy to bother with vintage tables/carts as opposed to speakers and amps, but there's no way in hell I'm gonna pay even close to what new stuff is worth lol