thebiglebowski Posted February 5, 2014 Share Posted February 5, 2014 Started just liking everyone, even the dogs. Burned through everyone within 20 miles of me without a match. Definitely think I got a ton of "no's' for screwing around putting pics up. Just kind of a bummer to have burned through an entire pool of attractive ladies by being lazy. Guess I have to just start with the new ones that come up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jase Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 especially because she's no stranger to being on her phone even when we hang out Don't sweat it. She was probably just trying to tee up her next few nights of consensual casual partners codeine 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Team Avatar Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 @bigleeee it seems like you can get "ahead" of the system and you start liking people who haven't seen your picture yet. For the longest time I only had matches when I clicked the heart button which was like once every (1000? lolol) but now they just trickle in. I get like 2 or 3 a day now if I don't much or any swiping. Granted, 95% of them don't reply. @logan - if you say you don't want to hang out, do they usually stop talking to you? I understand that tinder is cool enough to chat without ever hanging out, but if the guy stops chatting after you say no, then you just lose a conversation buddy! In general, I feel like these girls on tinder need to understand that nothing bad will come of coffee. let's be friends! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 I've actually never found anyone all that cool to talk to yet. If I mesh with someone well, I wouldn't stop talking to them and maaaaaybe I'd hang. I have crippling social anxiety and so it takes a lot for me to meet up with people. It took over a year to meet all my Florida/Boston friends and I honestly lose my mind with each year that passes not being with them. So, I do know that you can meet the absolutely best humans on the internet...it just takes me awhile to warm up to people. A friend of mine also pointed out that if I don't click with someone right away (both relationship/friendship wise), I pretty much walk away. I can also pretty much tell if I'm going to enjoy someone just by their Facebook. All about dem vibes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laralaurent Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 i think i must have it wrong. i thought tinder was the straight grindr. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roadmonkey Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 i think i must have it wrong. i thought tinder was the straight grindr. Nah, that's Pure http://www.getpure.org/en/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KennyFuckingPowers Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 Lebowski - I did that in LA. Unfortunately I only got like 6/7 matches out of the hundreds I like'ed. I would do it here, but I dont want to get matched with some busted girl I went to high school with and have her think that Im actually attracted to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Team Avatar Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 Lebowski - I did that in LA. Unfortunately I only got like 6/7 matches out of the hundreds I like'ed. I would do it here, but I dont want to get matched with some busted girl I went to high school with and have her think that Im actually attracted to her. god forbid someone finds you attractive that you don't, just don't answer, like 99% of the tinder community! it seems like most girls want to be messaged first anyways Princess Logan 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 I wish there was a lesbian grndrr so when out in normal places I can tell if a lesbian is near nobodybrokeurheart 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 Nah, that's Pure http://www.getpure.org/en/ game changer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 Let's Date is a pretty cool app too, I liked it because it was aesthetically pleasing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3arl Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 Nah, that's Pure http://www.getpure.org/en/ I like how on the website they talk around it what people will really use it for, but in their "manifesto" at the end they straight up say "This app is for banging lots of people!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpazzyMcGee Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 I like how on the website they talk around it what people will really use it for, but in their "manifesto" at the end they straight up say "This app is for banging lots of people!" Weirdest thing to me.. Reminds me of GOB and his Swing City idea Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 This is my thought. I was totally that girl. Oops. But shyness and social anxiety kind of force you into being that girl. I took a lot of "naps" hint: I don't take naps. Ever. thought about this today- and quickly developed a new tool. from now on, i will work in a conversation on every first date to gauge the frequency of their napping. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deafening Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 thought about this today- and quickly developed a new tool. from now on, i will work in a conversation on every first date to gauge the frequency of their napping. If she says she doesn't nap at first, and then uses napping as an excuse later, that just means she's awesome. Because I'm fucking awesome... except for my completely unacceptable social skills. but if my bad traits inspire you in your dating world, I'm totally cool with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 The very nice boy that I've had a tiny fan girl crush on since 9th grade decided to talk to me today. Which is nice because jerk boy that won't leave me alone but still has a girlfriend decided to stalk my instagram and like photos so that I would know that he did it. st00pid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 Also this is very hilarious because it nails how I think about all relationships ever. " We are either best friends and ready to go on a cross-country road trip and start a business together within 5 minutes of meeting, or we are forever stuck in acquaintance territory." http://hellogiggles.com/pickup-lines-i-wish-guys-used-on-me?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=HGFB&utm_campaign=post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deafening Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 Yeah ^ Pretty much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobodybrokeurheart Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 I wish there was a lesbian grndrr so when out in normal places I can tell if a lesbian is near YES. and your phone will beep like a metal detector. I swear we need a secret hand signal. So if you make it to a lady who isn't down she won't know wtf just happened and no one is embarrassed or weirded out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 YES. and your phone will beep like a metal detector. I swear we need a secret hand signal. So if you make it to a lady who isn't down she won't know wtf just happened and no one is embarrassed or weirded out. Invent this. I'm jealous of gay guys. Like some guy walked into my friends place of work a couple of weeks ago, so he looks on grinder and bam there he is. And I end up awkwardly chillin the next day Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KennyFuckingPowers Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 Oh my god guys. Airplane tinder. This is awesome. Yeah I signed up for the beta. http://www.businessinsider.com/wingman-app-mile-high-club-2014-2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Logan Posted February 6, 2014 Share Posted February 6, 2014 That is so hilarious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roadmonkey Posted February 7, 2014 Share Posted February 7, 2014 Oh my god guys. Airplane tinder. This is awesome. Yeah I signed up for the beta. http://www.businessinsider.com/wingman-app-mile-high-club-2014-2 Dammit, that's just going to kill having a nice chat with the hot that randomly sits next to me on a flight.. .also SUPA CREEPA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiatorhums Posted February 7, 2014 Share Posted February 7, 2014 Oh my god guys. Airplane tinder. This is awesome. Yeah I signed up for the beta. http://www.businessinsider.com/wingman-app-mile-high-club-2014-2 I love the idea of that, but the odds of someone on the same plane as you using it seem so low. But if I traveled a lot, I would try it all the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Out of Breath Records Posted February 7, 2014 Share Posted February 7, 2014 Orgy on the airplane? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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