Derek™ Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 who knew there was a distinct parallel among collecting vinyl and long distance relationships? It's because we're snobby elitists who expect the best and shoot for rarity. Finding that outside your back door is almost unheard of. ronniegwilliams, tittus and rudeboydh 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjb2k1 Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 hahahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcm1610 Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 I think it has more to do with being internet lurkers and talking to people you don't run into "IRL" more than collecting vinyl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derek™ Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 Probably. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dashhax Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 I was in a long distance relationship for about 8 months. but it was different because we were together, in the same town, for 3 years before that. He moved because he got into the school of his dreams or whatever which he eventually dropped out of. I think after he moved we both realized how much we depended on the physical part of our relationship. We eventually broke up because he would call me every day to accuse me of cheating or log into my facebook and read my messages. For a few months after that he would call me crying at night. He even flew back to michigan and showed up at my house with a ring (i swear to god or satan or whoever that this is real life) and flipped out when I said no. He tried to punch me, missed, and ended up cracking his truck windshield. Needless to say I now have a PPO against the man I once thought I would marry. Funny how life works. He was bipolar by the way. You live a very complicated life Madie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexH. Posted August 7, 2012 Share Posted August 7, 2012 did not read thread, how did it get 16 pages in 2 weeks is it because there is a chance to talk to a girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 it got to 16 pages because a handful of us have been going back and forth giving each other advice. crazy, right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 this thread is like a gold mine for me, I've never gotten to hear such candid/honest relationship stories from a man's point of view. I'm used to my girlfriends complaining about trivial drama. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudeboydh Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 who knew there was a distinct parallel among collecting vinyl and long distance relationships? In my case, I think it was because the majority of people in the South... suck... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 In my case, I think it was because the majority of people suck... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudeboydh Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 This is also true... lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 and of course the day after i speak my mind, its nearly 10 pm and we havent even spoken. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevin848 Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 and of course the day after i speak my mind, its nearly 10 pm and we havent even spoken. At what point are you just going to let it go? It's not healthy to keep that shit inside and just hope it works out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronniegwilliams Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 At what point are you just going to let it go? It's not healthy to keep that shit inside and just hope it works out. agreed, it's easy to allow yourself to let poor situations linger when the outcome could be potentially bad, but there is only so much you can allow yourself to go through via the opposite sex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 well through the conversation last night, ive realized that a lot of what happens is that she maintains this "well thats how it is, and were just gonna have to deal with it" attitude... and while im trying to make a point, she comes in with that and what i had the intention of saying seems like it loses its levity. ive always been much better at saying what i have to in writing. so im gonna send her a really long-winded email tonight. now im just trying to decide if i should smoke first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronniegwilliams Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 Why don't you just call her instead? It's far more personal and allows both of you to interact with one another. If she tries the "it is what it is" routine, let her know how you feel about that response. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 if i couldnt get out what i wanted to through skype, a phone call wont do me any better. writing it just allows me way more peace of mind in being able to say every single thing i want to say, and getting it out there in just the right way without letting the heat of the moment interfere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevin848 Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 Or just tell her to let you say everything you want to say before she gives her opinion. At least you can still say what you want without feeling like she is taking the wind from your sails. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevin848 Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 Or write it down and read it like a script? Haha. I've been out of the dating game for so long I don't remember how. Single4Lyfe (not by choice!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 it probably goes back to how bad i am with confrontation. and theres a lot of necessary finger pointing going on in this here letter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
almightyseancore Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 you said finger. yocaseycasey 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 Finger bang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yocaseycasey Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 it probably goes back to how bad i am with confrontation. and theres a lot of necessary finger pointing going on in this here letter. I'm not wearing any pants and I'm eating cashews. A cashew fell on my balls when I read this. It's irrelevant, but I figured Ryan would appreciate knowing. rudeboydh 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 oh casey! quit being such a stranger around here. im patiently awaiting her response which should be coming shortly. although she didnt even acknowledge receiving it until about an hour ago when i had to text her and ask. "ive been busy with this this and this all day". okay, fine. but does that really mean its cool to just avoid me all day after i spill my heart out? women are the worst. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudeboydh Posted August 9, 2012 Share Posted August 9, 2012 I'm not wearing any pants and I'm eating cashews. A cashew fell on my balls when I read this. It's irrelevant, but I figured Ryan would appreciate knowing. Thank you for enlightening us on the cashew ballsack situation Casey. Keep up the good work. You didn't eat the cashew, did you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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