circuit bored records Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 I think the dead horse has been beaten into dust on this one. Who else needs -- and would actually listen to -- some MAN advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hobohunter48 Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 and would actually listen to Pretty much the only common theme throughout the whole thread is not to listen to the advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 I always listened to the advice. for reals. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 I'd say I've taken a good amount of everyone's advice. Especially what lebowski handed out on the last page. But yeah, it does seem like a majority of what has been offered has just been "oh good you read my problem" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 I mostly just come in here now to offer a female perspective on things. but I am sympathetic to the people who are blinded by their feelings, cause I was there for a long time. I didn’t listen to a word of my friends advice for like 5-6 years. it sucks, but I feel like one day a lot of these dudes will wake up and be like ‘nope, I’m done.’ until then they’ll put up with the crazies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dashhax Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 I know it's hard for you Matt. But getting out of that relationship is one of the best things you could have done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abovetheearth Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 I read everyone's problems FWIW...but am always on my phone and dont have the patience to type out my replies. when i was in college i had a radio slot in the wee hours of the morning known as the "love doctor" it was great. got me more ass than booth seating at an applebees. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maneatingcow Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 Fucking turned fucking 30. fucking fucking shit. The soundtrack to my last 48 hours has been - Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 don't be like that, also happy belated birthday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 You just hit the dirty thirties, be stoked. Fuck being in your 20s...more over-rated than being a teenager. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhook Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 Fucking turned fucking 30. fucking fucking shit. The soundtrack to my last 48 hours has been - Bummer dude, you will prob. die soon. controlthebleeding 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abovetheearth Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 here comes the knee/back pain. the tiredness. the belly for no reason. the liquid shits for everything. the baldness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GradedOnACurve Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 What if you have 4/5 and you're not 30 yet? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abovetheearth Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 then the opposite! it goes away after 30! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzersonKillwell Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 here comes the knee/back pain. the tiredness. the belly for no reason. the liquid shits for everything. the baldness. Hey man, don't scare the guy. I got none of that. I'm only 31 though, 32 and beyond could be different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marc32137 Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 I'm 26 and have at least 3 of those. Hairloss started when I was 20. *Shakes fist at genetics* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
controlthebleeding Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 here comes the knee/back pain. the tiredness. the belly for no reason. the liquid shits for everything. the baldness. i got all those in my 20's/early 30's, well besides baldness. 2 1/2 months short of 40 and i suffer from none of them anymore. my diet is pretty regular, i dont drink lots of soda anymore, and stopped smoking about 6 months ago. it's been an awesome ride. dethrock 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 Knee pain from skateboarding most likely...not really that bad though. Back doesn't hurt unless I have been standing/walking around a lot...like at work (12hr shifts though). The tiredness happens because I only sleep 4-6 hours a night unless it is the weekend. The liquid shits...not always, unless I eat some weird food. The baldness...nope. I do have one silver hair in my beard and one on top of my head, but I dig that. I am only 30 though...31 in October. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thebiglebowski Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 The way I look at it -- it's not a binary decision whether you take the advice here in real life. For example, if the majority says "dump your girlfriend", it doesn't mean someone dumps their girlfriend. But it put you one step closer to doing it and maybe makes you evaluate things differently. So thread is useful and not just for venting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paranoidantroyd Posted June 12, 2013 Share Posted June 12, 2013 This thread needs a Red Foreman. controlthebleeding 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KennyFuckingPowers Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 This thread needs a Red Foreman. Not really. People come here to not get judged. The thread doesnt need someone who will just judge them or the situation going on and say "suck it up or ill put my foot in your ass" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigbruise Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 Yeah, but it's also the internet. oohdoiloveyou, paranoidantroyd and circuit bored records 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paranoidantroyd Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 Tough love is a nice contrast to coddling. circuit bored records 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 so here's one. she's been flaky. pretty much since we started seeing each other, but it all seemed legit, so i didn't think much of it. but today is the third straight day she's cancelled plans on me because she has too much work to do. she has a job, a demanding summer class, and an internship. again- legitimate. but it just feels like she makes these plans with me knowing she has all this shit to do. even tonight. i was supposed to go over when i got out at 6:30. when i got out, i had a text saying "hey i'll be home at 9". now she's saying she probably won't finish her homework by the 12:00 deadline. swears she's free the next 4 days... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
controlthebleeding Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 Not really. People come here to not get judged. The thread doesnt need someone who will just judge them or the situation going on and say "suck it up or ill put my foot in your ass" the people here need some of that though.. mainly because most of you guys are dumbasses. red's words.. not mine. unfortunately, sometimes people make dumb decisions (lack common sense) and if you play it out on the net, expect some judgemental criticism/concern. if you don't want to hear any of it or advice from people, don't post your problems on the internet. young people (sometimes older) do stupid shit, but what makes it worse is when a person has problems, asks for advise, completely disregards said advice by arguing with people giving it. then when it blows up in his/her face, they are appalled by everyone's malice for their feelings. . thats when you're suppose to suck it up and admit being the dolt. so yes, we need a little more red foreman in here. oohdoiloveyou, circuit bored records and paranoidantroyd 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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