Guest Posted April 29, 2013 Share Posted April 29, 2013 i consider it cheating unless the dude is present Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted April 29, 2013 Share Posted April 29, 2013 i consider it cheating unless the dude is present I agree with this. Being intimate/sexual with anyone who is not your significant other behind their back is considered cheating to me. Doesn't matter if you're gay or straight on a "normal day." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
controlthebleeding Posted April 29, 2013 Share Posted April 29, 2013 Unless you guys are going down on the girl I dont think bj's should be mandatory well yeah, that doesn't need to be said. it's a unspoken rule. i know one guy who doesn't go down on his girlfriends at all, and doesn't expect fellatio either. his girlfriend said he was the most unadventurous sonofabitch in bed. once she stuck a finger in his ass and he freaked out and left her place and they broke up a week later. she just wanted to get off and not have to do the usual on your back, get fucked for 20 minutes, and then go to bed. talk about boring. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 29, 2013 Share Posted April 29, 2013 I get that she wanted to spice things up with him but a suprise finger in the ass might've been a little much, I think. Especially with a guy who is as vanilla as he sounds. she sounds fun though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roadmonkey Posted April 29, 2013 Share Posted April 29, 2013 really don't understand the idea that guys think it's gross to go down on girls. It's one of the first experiences I ever had with a girl and I've loved it ever since. This is usually how it ends up, cause it's awesome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinisterkidd Posted April 29, 2013 Share Posted April 29, 2013 Yea I don't really give a fuck if a chick has a boyfriend or whatever, if she wants to make out cool. Not my problem. But I'd say that's cheating. I made out with a guy when I was dating this girl but never told her cuz I'm a p.o.s. but I'm sure she would have been super pissed and considered that cheating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 29, 2013 Share Posted April 29, 2013 real talk- i love going downtown Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigbruise Posted April 29, 2013 Share Posted April 29, 2013 real talk- i love going downtown pretty much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 29, 2013 Share Posted April 29, 2013 Bunch of fine gentlemen in this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suchashorttime Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 real talk- i love going downtown truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marc32137 Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 real talk- i love going downtown Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 pretty much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abovetheearth Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 This thread got wicked awesome since I visited last. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzersonKillwell Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 If it is sex or sex adjacent it is probably fun. If some people want to skip parts, that is their loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghost_Parlour* Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 I'm with the above sentiments, DFI. But does anyone else wonder about the herp though? Any remedies to calm a guys fear? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 I just really want to find a way to fit 'sex adjacent' into as many conversations as possible. Thanks Jefferson. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 If it is sex or sex adjacent it is probably fun. If some people want to skip parts, that is their loss. Someone skipping parts is someone else's loss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjb2k1 Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 yeah, to go more in depth with this horrible situation, he wants to marry her. but every time she comes to my town to visit me, we go out and she makes out with other girls (which she doesn’t consider cheating but i absolutely do - what are everyone else's opinions on that?). I try to stop her but it’s mostly useless. and once she pinned me down and told me she wanted to taste my lady flower so there is that. billya, maneatingcow, cbbrew22 and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
futures Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 Haha. That's a good point. ^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jase Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 I'm with the above sentiments, DFI. But does anyone else wonder about the herp though? Any remedies to calm a guys fear? Wrap your gear up before screwing someone you aren't in a committed relationship with. It's for life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghost_Parlour* Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 Oh for sure man, that's a given. It's mouth herpes I don't want to get from going down south. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jase Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 Oh, don't go down on one night stands. They are different strands of the same virus(genital and oral herpes). And have different preferences for where they want to be. For me, as a general rule. No chowtown on one night stands(ever), no chowtown first interaction. I want to be able to have a bit if a look down there and check out the general upkeep. A well groomed, clean and nice lady will likely not have any sti's. But you never know, you can always ask and hope for a truthful response Ghost_Parlour* 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zacaroo21 Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 Well I missed out on the fun the past few days... True story - after beach outing tent romping ended up with sand in mouth...not all that fun. Didn't think that one through much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronniegwilliams Posted May 2, 2013 Share Posted May 2, 2013 real talk- i love going downtownThis. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronniegwilliams Posted May 2, 2013 Share Posted May 2, 2013 I'm all about going downtown, but if a gal isn't down todo the same, well then that just isn't fair. Though I doubt I'll find a gal who is willing to give as often as I do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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