Shitty Rambo Posted June 30, 2023 Share Posted June 30, 2023 Dear VC, It is with a heavy heart and profound sadness that I come here today to announce the passing of our beloved Juan's father, who departed from this world 6/30/23. During this difficult time, we gather as a community to extend our deepest condolences, love, and support to @jhulud and his entire family. Video Player is loading. Play Video Play Unmute Current Time 0:00 / Duration 0:19 Loaded: 100.00% Stream Type LIVE Seek to live, currently behind liveLIVE Remaining Time -0:19  1x Playback Rate Chapters Chapters Descriptions descriptions off, selected Captions captions settings, opens captions settings dialog captions off, selected Audio Track Picture-in-PictureFullscreen This is a modal window. Beginning of dialog window. Escape will cancel and close the window. TextColorWhiteBlackRedGreenBlueYellowMagentaCyanTransparencyOpaqueSemi-Transparent BackgroundColorBlackWhiteRedGreenBlueYellowMagentaCyanTransparencyOpaqueSemi-TransparentTransparent WindowColorBlackWhiteRedGreenBlueYellowMagentaCyanTransparencyTransparentSemi-TransparentOpaque Font Size50%75%100%125%150%175%200%300%400% Text Edge StyleNoneRaisedDepressedUniformDropshadow Font FamilyProportional Sans-SerifMonospace Sans-SerifProportional SerifMonospace SerifCasualScriptSmall Caps Reset restore all settings to the default valuesDone Close Modal Dialog End of dialog window. Advertisement: 0:26 As many of us know, Juan has been an integral part of this community, without him there is no us. His commitment and efforts to this community extend outside of these boards, and he is a dear friend to many beyond this music community. It's our turn to give back and show our unwavering support to him. Unfortunately, this unforseen and sudden tragedy has left an immense emotional and financial burden on the family. The hospital expenses have been overwhelming, and there are also concerns about the family home's stability in the face of these challenging circumstances. To offer help and alleviate some of the financial stress a GoFundMe campaign will be organized, and shared here shortly. With hope, these funds should ease the excessive medical expenses, and provide them with the means to keep their cherished family home. If you have a moment to extend your heartfelt condolences to @jhulud and his family please do so. May he find comfort in the love and support of this community during this difficult journey of healing. archiced, Bronchitis, daegor and 18 others 17 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shitty Rambo Posted June 30, 2023 Author Share Posted June 30, 2023 GoFundMe - https://www.gofundme.com/f/funeral-and-cremation-of-my-dad?utm_campaign=p_cp+share-sheet&utm_medium=copy_link_all&utm_source=custom er TheWindBlower, jhulud, hallowken78 and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mitchard Posted June 30, 2023 Share Posted June 30, 2023 Sorry for your loss, Juan. My thoughts are with you and your family. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexicondevil Posted June 30, 2023 Share Posted June 30, 2023 Juan, hugs to you and your family. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prowl20 Posted June 30, 2023 Share Posted June 30, 2023 So sorry for your loss, Juan. My heart goes out to you and your family. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hallowken78 Posted July 1, 2023 Share Posted July 1, 2023 My condolences Juan. Sending positives vibes to you and your family. I don't know you personally, but you're part of the fabric that makes this community what it is. And myself, like many others, have made visiting here an integral part of their daily routine. Keep your chin up, man. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nothingnatural Posted July 1, 2023 Share Posted July 1, 2023 RIP to your father bud. I hope you and the family are doing well during this difficult time. All the best. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiefwahoo Posted July 1, 2023 Share Posted July 1, 2023 My deepest condolences, Juan. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGhostOfRandySavage Posted July 1, 2023 Share Posted July 1, 2023 Juan, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad, dude. That sucks so much. I'm not a funeral director any more, but if you have any questions or something seems weird with the arrangements, send me a message and I'm happy to help if I can. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derek™ Posted July 1, 2023 Share Posted July 1, 2023 Can’t speak for everyone else… but to me, this has felt like a devastating year of hard goodbyes. Just so much more loss and grief than any year prior, seen firsthand through my circle of loved ones, friends, and coworkers. I’m sorry to hear that’s a loss you’re now facing too. I hope it wasn’t too sudden of a development. I know I’m not anywhere near ready to process the loss of a parent, myself, but it’s got to be (even) tougher when there’s little or no time to mentally prepare. I’d say it gets easier bit by bit if you can hang in there, but I also know I’d be numb and dumbfounded if it were me in your shoes right now, so no soapbox speech from me. I’ll simply say that I hope you and everyone else are coping as best as you can right now. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
archiced Posted July 1, 2023 Share Posted July 1, 2023 My deepest condolences @jhulud jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justinadamk Posted July 1, 2023 Share Posted July 1, 2023 Sorry for your loss, Juan. Sending positive thoughts to you and your family ❤️ jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SaulManella Posted July 1, 2023 Share Posted July 1, 2023 Sorry for your loss, Juan. You got a community here happy to help. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LIGMA_BALLZ Posted July 1, 2023 Share Posted July 1, 2023 Losing a parent sucks. Lost my dad to cancer a while ago. My condolences jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
faaip de oiad Posted July 2, 2023 Share Posted July 2, 2023 Much love brother juan jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tommy Posted July 2, 2023 Share Posted July 2, 2023 So sorry to hear this, deepest condolences @jhulud jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drewberinger Posted July 2, 2023 Share Posted July 2, 2023 Thinking of you @jhulud - so sorry to hear this - we love you jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheWindBlower Posted July 2, 2023 Share Posted July 2, 2023 Very sorry to hear this, @jhulud. Sincere condolences to you and your family. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marc32137 Posted July 3, 2023 Share Posted July 3, 2023 Sending love and good vibes your way, Juan! jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhulud Posted July 3, 2023 Share Posted July 3, 2023 I have no words to express the gratitude and support from everyone so far. This has been an incredibly difficult and unexpected turn of events and experience. My father had been fighting cancer for two years now...for a second time...and was doing well. But three weeks ago this past Wednesday, he complained that was feeling dizzy and not all balanced. We took him to the ER and eventually was admitted and found that he had multiple small strokes in his head, a brain bleed, and a heart issue. The cancer was in his left lung. In those three weeks, his condition physically and cognitively deteriorated. On that last week, it was worse than ever and it's when doctors advised that nothing else could be done. He was taken to hospice on Friday mid-day and passed at 3:00pm or so right as my mother & I arrived to see him as they had notified us he had arrived and was settled in. My brother had to stay home with our dog as she's been having a very hard time with my father's absence up until then. It has been a great deal of a struggle so far in not only these past weeks but also due to his passing. He left us without any info on a will or life insurance or anything of the sort. So we're handling all of this on our own as best as we can. We tried to contact a number of attorneys to assist us, but they're all asking for amounts of money we do not have. Thankfully, I have a few friends locally who have been able to guide us through some things as best as they can. But it all still feels very lonely and it's most hard on my mom as she feels all alone. And we don't have family close by who can stop in and hang out and be with us in these times. But I am thankful for Jared for not only making this post but also looking out and all of the support and love from all you VC'ers. It's incredibly appreciated and makes me feel less alone in dealing with this. We knew that my father would eventually pass but not this fast. But we're comfortable in knowing that he's no longer suffering and passed peacefully and waited to go as soon as we arrived to see him. I am taking comfort in that. Again...thank you so much VC. I feel the love and gives me comfort. faaip de oiad, Mars, LIGMA_BALLZ and 23 others 26 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j67ab Posted July 3, 2023 Share Posted July 3, 2023 Sorry for your loss Juan, I lost my dad in 2020 under the same circumstances. Please heal and give yourself time. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Posted July 3, 2023 Share Posted July 3, 2023 So sorry for your loss Juan, losing family is never easy, and especially when it's sudden. You have a community here for you, man! jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drawcody Posted July 3, 2023 Share Posted July 3, 2023 We just lost my father in law a few weeks ago. I know where you’re at man. Keep your head up. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiatorhums Posted July 3, 2023 Share Posted July 3, 2023 You mean a lot to this community Juan, we're here for you if you need us. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
webdoggy Posted July 3, 2023 Share Posted July 3, 2023 Sorry for your loss man. Hang in there. jhulud 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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